MacMacMoo
06-09-2010, 03:55 PM
DS will be two in Aug. He has some bad bad bad habits that need to be addressed. But I don't even know where to start.
-DS uses my hair as his lovely. It started innocently. He would play with my locket when he had his bottle as a baby. The locket would sometime get tangled in my hair and so he started loving on my hair instead. I'd tried offering lovies. Tried keeping my hair out of his reach. nothing worked, probably because in the end he'd still end up with my hair. He's picky to, I've gone as far as getting a hair cut and given him the locks. He rejected it, he likes the ones attached to my head.
-I can't figure out how to make him go to sleep. I can see him give all the cue: eyes rubs, yawning, flumping on the floor. But I can't get him to fall asleep!
-He's favorite place to sleep is in our bed with us. We were able to get him to sleep on a twin mattress in his room for a few nights, but not happening any more. past three night were a no go. Prior the sleeping in his room, ended with him waking up in the middle of the night and coming into our bedroom and crawling into bed with us.
-He'll stay asleep if someone is next to him. As in after he crawls into bed with us at night he'll stay asleep. if I get out a 7, he's up at 7. if I get out at 10 he wakes up at 10.
-We have tried cry it out a few times in his life (back when he was in a crib), but he'd cry and cry cry and never go to sleep.
-one method that use to work is I'll sit on his bed and he'll sit next to me. hop out and play. and check on me every so often. Finally he'll be ready to go to bed and crawl in and fall asleep. Lately that hasn't been working.
I guess the ultimate question is how do I get DS to settle himself down and go to sleep without DH or I there. I don't mind sitting and reading him books, but I can't stand laying there waiting for him to fall asleep anymore.
-DS uses my hair as his lovely. It started innocently. He would play with my locket when he had his bottle as a baby. The locket would sometime get tangled in my hair and so he started loving on my hair instead. I'd tried offering lovies. Tried keeping my hair out of his reach. nothing worked, probably because in the end he'd still end up with my hair. He's picky to, I've gone as far as getting a hair cut and given him the locks. He rejected it, he likes the ones attached to my head.
-I can't figure out how to make him go to sleep. I can see him give all the cue: eyes rubs, yawning, flumping on the floor. But I can't get him to fall asleep!
-He's favorite place to sleep is in our bed with us. We were able to get him to sleep on a twin mattress in his room for a few nights, but not happening any more. past three night were a no go. Prior the sleeping in his room, ended with him waking up in the middle of the night and coming into our bedroom and crawling into bed with us.
-He'll stay asleep if someone is next to him. As in after he crawls into bed with us at night he'll stay asleep. if I get out a 7, he's up at 7. if I get out at 10 he wakes up at 10.
-We have tried cry it out a few times in his life (back when he was in a crib), but he'd cry and cry cry and never go to sleep.
-one method that use to work is I'll sit on his bed and he'll sit next to me. hop out and play. and check on me every so often. Finally he'll be ready to go to bed and crawl in and fall asleep. Lately that hasn't been working.
I guess the ultimate question is how do I get DS to settle himself down and go to sleep without DH or I there. I don't mind sitting and reading him books, but I can't stand laying there waiting for him to fall asleep anymore.