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dec756
11-06-2010, 08:08 PM
Have you and your partner had anal sex? i am wondering because it is seeming pretty prevalent with all my friends...
any explanations welcome
sariana
11-06-2010, 08:17 PM
You might get more replies to this question if you posted it as a poll, so people could respond anonymously.
dec756
11-06-2010, 08:21 PM
i actually dont know how to make one!!! would you mind telling me please
sariana
11-06-2010, 08:24 PM
I don't know how, but apparently you figured it out.:)
boogiemomz
11-06-2010, 08:26 PM
Nope, not into that.
cindys
11-06-2010, 08:43 PM
Nope, no way....

I have a girlfriend whose DH wanted to try that...She told him she would be more than happy to oblige right after he let her use a broom handle on him so he would know how it feels...

He never mentioned it again..

Cindy
Mama to 3 boys...19,4 & 2 :love-retry::love-retry::love-retry:
newg
11-06-2010, 09:18 PM
She told him she would be more than happy to oblige right after he let her use a broom handle on him so he would know how it feels...

He never mentioned it again..


This was pretty much my answer to DH.........he hasn't mentioned it in a while.
Raidra
11-06-2010, 09:32 PM
We haven't (well, aside from a little fooling around in the shower), but only because I'm too self-conscious about any ickiness that might result. I've heard of some people doing enemas beforehand, but I'm not about to try that out, either.
Babymakes3
11-06-2010, 09:32 PM
Nope, no way....

I have a girlfriend whose DH wanted to try that...She told him she would be more than happy to oblige right after he let her use a broom handle on him so he would know how it feels...

He never mentioned it again..

Cindy
Mama to 3 boys...19,4 & 2 :love-retry::love-retry::love-retry:

I told my DH a cucumber...he still mentions it but he's not going to get anywhere!
BabyMine
11-06-2010, 09:41 PM
I'll be the outsider. Years and years ago (9 years) we tried it a couple times. It was part of my experimentation phase. I wouldn't do it now though.
lalasmama
11-06-2010, 11:13 PM
A few times with prior partners. No where near as bad as I thought it would be.... (TMI) I'm an evening pooper, so there wasn't a lot of "ickiness" to be had; I had always recently poo'ed, and a shower before was standard. SO now has been wanting to try it, but I haven't had the urge to try it lately.
dec756
11-07-2010, 04:25 PM
dbf and i ahve been together for 7+ years and we just did it after him asking pretty persistently for at least the last year...i never really wanted to give in because of the stigma but actually i must admit i am def liking it and its made our sex life much more interesting...

i would rather keep him interested and give in to one of his fantasies versus him looking elsewhere for that satisfaction. jmo
lchang25000
11-07-2010, 06:59 PM
NO WAY NO HOW! Things only come out of there, not in!
SpaceGal
11-07-2010, 08:36 PM
Never have and never will...I am truamatized by the cheesy pornos my college roomies and I watched with girls with buttholes way bigger than they needed to be! Sorry TMI but that was enough to make me go NO WAY!!
Twoboos
11-07-2010, 08:41 PM
Nope, exit only orifice.
g-mama
11-07-2010, 09:07 PM
... girls with buttholes way bigger than they needed to be!

That is absolutely nasty!
ourbabygirl
11-07-2010, 10:48 PM
Add me to the "no way, no how" people! Natural childbirth & the ring of fire was more than enough for me, thank you! :tongue5:
mom2binsd
11-07-2010, 11:28 PM
As someone who's had hemmorhoid surgery, pretty sure that it ain't gonna happen!
essnce629
11-08-2010, 07:44 AM
We've done it a couple times since we've been together (probably like once a year). Not really my thing, but DBF seemed to like it. Not really any ickiness, but you should always use a condom, lots of lube, go really slow at first, and never go from anal to vaginal! It's a pretty odd feeling I might say!
Melaine
11-08-2010, 07:53 AM
I do not consider myself a prude in most cases, but this is just not going to happen.
lizzywednesday
11-10-2010, 02:00 PM
I've done it but not with DH. It's not my cup of tea. When I tried it, it was largely due to wanting to experiment a bit and it was a rare occurrence even then.

The worst part is that it leads to GI distress for me, so when DH mentioned it as a possible something he'd like to experiment with, I flat-out refused on those grounds.
gatorsmom
11-20-2010, 11:20 AM
During an "wild" phase with DH,yes, we did. And while it hurt at first (a lot), once I got into it they were the most powerful orgasms I've ever had.

I really don't think it's healthy, however, so we haven't tried it in 5+ years. I worry about tears, stretching and infections. It was really just an experimental phase.

ETA: can't believe I just admitted this on a public board.....