hillview
01-11-2011, 10:28 PM
DS1 will usually clean up (sometimes some negotiation) but he largely gets the joke.
DS2 is a freak about it. With my recent purge/tidy efforts I am trying to get the boys to clean up before dinner/bed. For the last 2 days DS2 has been a tantrum/drama tears, anger, throwing, etc.
Typically (with DS1 historically) I held my ground. And eventually he would clean up. With DS2 well it is a totally different story. He falls apart. Total disaster.
I have tried
Warning (clean up in 5 minutes etc)
Offering to do it together
Telling him he is cutting into fun activities (book reading/TV show time)
Ignoring the tantrum
Hugging him and cheering him on which sometimes works for other situations
I need a new path. Kids do clean up at 3 right?
Cleaning up isn't a totally new event at our house BUT it isn't a routinized effort. He does clear his plate after dinner, get dressed himself largely, etc.
School has been a little stressful for him -- he started Montessori in September and I think he is still adjusting. At the end of the day he is definitely tired.
Thanks for reading this much!
/hillary
DS2 is a freak about it. With my recent purge/tidy efforts I am trying to get the boys to clean up before dinner/bed. For the last 2 days DS2 has been a tantrum/drama tears, anger, throwing, etc.
Typically (with DS1 historically) I held my ground. And eventually he would clean up. With DS2 well it is a totally different story. He falls apart. Total disaster.
I have tried
Warning (clean up in 5 minutes etc)
Offering to do it together
Telling him he is cutting into fun activities (book reading/TV show time)
Ignoring the tantrum
Hugging him and cheering him on which sometimes works for other situations
I need a new path. Kids do clean up at 3 right?
Cleaning up isn't a totally new event at our house BUT it isn't a routinized effort. He does clear his plate after dinner, get dressed himself largely, etc.
School has been a little stressful for him -- he started Montessori in September and I think he is still adjusting. At the end of the day he is definitely tired.
Thanks for reading this much!
/hillary