niccig
02-25-2011, 04:13 AM
I am done with family and friends wanting to make summer plans that fit around their schedules, but mess things up for DS and I. I was at school and not near a computer when DH called to tell me what family/friends can do. I asked him to check the summer camp's website to see the dates. He tells me DS can go to the camp for the weeks after school and before we leave, as I'm going to study for the GRE. I go to fill out the camp forms and we can only do those 2 weeks if we're enrolling later in the summer...well, we don't need camp in August as I'm not doing anything, and all DS's friends from school are going in June and July. Last year he went for a week, had a break for 2 weeks because of vacation plans, and it was difficult for him to adjust back to going..drop off was awful for a few days. I don't want to do that to him again..send him for 2 weeks, then 4 weeks off and send him for 4 weeks again.
I can't take summer classes because of the vacation as we leave TWO days before the session ends and the final is on the last day. I opted to take the GRE over the class for this reason...and now, I have to find other summer options for DS rather than the great camp I really want to send him too. His school gets out earlier than other schools, so we don't have a lot of options, and they're all much more expensive than the summer camp I want.
We agreed to some family plans for this Christmas that again, we're having to accomodate other people.
And DH wants to know why I'm all annoyed...I'm annoyed that he and others assume that we will be the flexible ones. NO MORE. I am done. If it doesn't fit in with what we need, the answer is no and MIL, my mother, everyone else can just deal with it.
I can't take summer classes because of the vacation as we leave TWO days before the session ends and the final is on the last day. I opted to take the GRE over the class for this reason...and now, I have to find other summer options for DS rather than the great camp I really want to send him too. His school gets out earlier than other schools, so we don't have a lot of options, and they're all much more expensive than the summer camp I want.
We agreed to some family plans for this Christmas that again, we're having to accomodate other people.
And DH wants to know why I'm all annoyed...I'm annoyed that he and others assume that we will be the flexible ones. NO MORE. I am done. If it doesn't fit in with what we need, the answer is no and MIL, my mother, everyone else can just deal with it.