ha98ed14
03-02-2011, 11:05 PM
DH has a student (10 y.o.) who, by the BBB mom standards, would probably be considered neglected. The student comes to school in visibly dirty, tattered clothes, hair not brushed, etc. DH is continually having trouble getting the student to turn in assignments. Recently DH helped the student go through the student's backpack to find assignments, and found old lunch remains that had turned moldy. DH emailed his parents about the moldy lunches because he saw it as a health risk, but overall it seems like no one is checking in with this child on a day to day basis. The parents emailed back and apologized, even said they were embarrassed and would try to help the student stay more on top of things.
Now the issue has become that the student smells. DH estimates that the child hasn't had a bath in over 2 weeks. It's mid year and pre-puberty is setting in, so it's probably a newer issue for the student and parents to be aware of. DH feels the need to say something, but to who(m?)? The school has no nurse or counselor presence at this time because of budget cuts. Should he go to the principal or contact the parents directly?
FWIW, the student also has some social issues, spitting into hands, rubbing them together and wiping it on the desk or other students; masturbating while sitting at desk in class. DH quietly addresses these issues with the student as they happen, which is multiple times per day. He hasn't addressed the social issues with the parents, and I don't think he plans to. I asked DH if he thinks the student is being molested, but DH says no because the student is overall a happy kid. He also said that having met the parents, he is not surprised that the child has these issues. The parents are equally awkward.
Now the issue has become that the student smells. DH estimates that the child hasn't had a bath in over 2 weeks. It's mid year and pre-puberty is setting in, so it's probably a newer issue for the student and parents to be aware of. DH feels the need to say something, but to who(m?)? The school has no nurse or counselor presence at this time because of budget cuts. Should he go to the principal or contact the parents directly?
FWIW, the student also has some social issues, spitting into hands, rubbing them together and wiping it on the desk or other students; masturbating while sitting at desk in class. DH quietly addresses these issues with the student as they happen, which is multiple times per day. He hasn't addressed the social issues with the parents, and I don't think he plans to. I asked DH if he thinks the student is being molested, but DH says no because the student is overall a happy kid. He also said that having met the parents, he is not surprised that the child has these issues. The parents are equally awkward.