Melaine
04-08-2011, 05:14 PM
I think I know the answer to this already, but I'm asking anyway. May get long.
The girls are in my cousin's wedding. My parents didn't get an invitation when everyone else got them. I got our invite, my brothers both got theirs, my aunt got hers, my grandma got hers, great aunt got hers, all the same week. My parents still didn't have theirs, but we know it was a mistake because my cousin had called my mom and talked to her about the wedding. So, my aunt called and mentioned it, so a couple days later, they got an invitation.
The invitation DIDN'T contain an invitation to the rehearsal dinner. My family, my grandma, my aunt and her family all were invited to the rehearsal dinner. I can't imagine that she would have left out my parents when everyone else was included (My aunt is not a part of the ceremony in any way).
I've never heard of sending rehearsal dinner invites, I've just heard of calling and talking to those who would be invited. But my thought is that in the whole wedding hoopla that the second invite sent to my parents might have accidentally missed the rehearsal invitation it should have held.
So here is my question, my cousin just emailed me asking me stuff about the girls dresses, etc.
It's not ok for me to casually ask her if there was a mistake about this, is there?
It's just so awkward for all of us to be going up there together and then my poor parents have to like go eat mcdonalds or something. I mean, they are also driving my grandma who would otherwise not be able to get to the wedding at all. So what are they, going to drop Grandma off at rehearsal dinner and leave? See why this is weird? WWYD?
The girls are in my cousin's wedding. My parents didn't get an invitation when everyone else got them. I got our invite, my brothers both got theirs, my aunt got hers, my grandma got hers, great aunt got hers, all the same week. My parents still didn't have theirs, but we know it was a mistake because my cousin had called my mom and talked to her about the wedding. So, my aunt called and mentioned it, so a couple days later, they got an invitation.
The invitation DIDN'T contain an invitation to the rehearsal dinner. My family, my grandma, my aunt and her family all were invited to the rehearsal dinner. I can't imagine that she would have left out my parents when everyone else was included (My aunt is not a part of the ceremony in any way).
I've never heard of sending rehearsal dinner invites, I've just heard of calling and talking to those who would be invited. But my thought is that in the whole wedding hoopla that the second invite sent to my parents might have accidentally missed the rehearsal invitation it should have held.
So here is my question, my cousin just emailed me asking me stuff about the girls dresses, etc.
It's not ok for me to casually ask her if there was a mistake about this, is there?
It's just so awkward for all of us to be going up there together and then my poor parents have to like go eat mcdonalds or something. I mean, they are also driving my grandma who would otherwise not be able to get to the wedding at all. So what are they, going to drop Grandma off at rehearsal dinner and leave? See why this is weird? WWYD?