sewarsh
05-06-2011, 09:35 PM
...""draw a picture of her shooting me".
Umm....okay.
This is my 4.5 YO DD who is completely non-violent.
We have no toy guns/swords, etc. in the house.
I don't think she's been exposed to any TV shows with guns in them.
I asked her how she would know how to draw a picture like that and she said 2 boys in her Pre-K class draw pictures of shooting people.
I then told her guns were very, very bad and if you shoot someone with a gun, you kill them and they go to heaven and you'll never see them again and would she want me to go to heaven and never me again. Of course she felt bad and I dropped it....didn't want to make a huge deal out of it.
How would you handle it with DD?
And also, should I speak to the Pre-K teachers about this? I don't know how practical it is to watch over every kid all the time especially when they are probably playing nicely at the art center, but it bothers me that she was exposed to this there. Am I overreacting? Is this just life and I have to get used to the fact that she's going to be exposed to things like this?
Clearly this is a big deal (or maybe it isn't and I'm making it one) so want to go about it the right way.
Thanks for your advice.
Umm....okay.
This is my 4.5 YO DD who is completely non-violent.
We have no toy guns/swords, etc. in the house.
I don't think she's been exposed to any TV shows with guns in them.
I asked her how she would know how to draw a picture like that and she said 2 boys in her Pre-K class draw pictures of shooting people.
I then told her guns were very, very bad and if you shoot someone with a gun, you kill them and they go to heaven and you'll never see them again and would she want me to go to heaven and never me again. Of course she felt bad and I dropped it....didn't want to make a huge deal out of it.
How would you handle it with DD?
And also, should I speak to the Pre-K teachers about this? I don't know how practical it is to watch over every kid all the time especially when they are probably playing nicely at the art center, but it bothers me that she was exposed to this there. Am I overreacting? Is this just life and I have to get used to the fact that she's going to be exposed to things like this?
Clearly this is a big deal (or maybe it isn't and I'm making it one) so want to go about it the right way.
Thanks for your advice.