ourbabygirl
07-07-2011, 05:41 PM
My nephew (2.5) has been terrible to his baby brother ever since he was born (about 8 months ago), and my mom, who baby-sits them, is at her wits' end. She told me about it, so I'm asking for your advice, since my SIL & brother just minimize it and act like nothing's wrong.
When the baby's awake, my nephew will pinch him, push him over, grab his feet if they're on a walk in the double stroller, hit him, you name it. (FWIW, it's not like my younger nephew is even 'getting into' his brother's toys or anything, he's not even crawling yet.) My mom scolds him and puts him up in his room, where my nephew proceeds to scream and kick the door (I'm not sure for how long or what my mom does then).
But then when the baby's down for a nap, my nephew is a little angel and acts great, I guess.
She seriously dreads going to baby-sit them (just once or twice a week, but still) because she can't leave them alone for a second or the older boy will be terrorizing the younger one. It's just exhausting, I guess. (I told her she needs to wear the baby in a baby-carrier but I don't think that's going to happen.) It's so strange to hear, too, because my nephew does not seem like this kind of kid- whenever I'm around him, he's not rowdy or obnoxious or anything, though I guess I'm just around at big family get-togethers, where my brother probably has one kid and my SIL has the other.
Any BTDT? Advice I can give her?
Thanks! :)
When the baby's awake, my nephew will pinch him, push him over, grab his feet if they're on a walk in the double stroller, hit him, you name it. (FWIW, it's not like my younger nephew is even 'getting into' his brother's toys or anything, he's not even crawling yet.) My mom scolds him and puts him up in his room, where my nephew proceeds to scream and kick the door (I'm not sure for how long or what my mom does then).
But then when the baby's down for a nap, my nephew is a little angel and acts great, I guess.
She seriously dreads going to baby-sit them (just once or twice a week, but still) because she can't leave them alone for a second or the older boy will be terrorizing the younger one. It's just exhausting, I guess. (I told her she needs to wear the baby in a baby-carrier but I don't think that's going to happen.) It's so strange to hear, too, because my nephew does not seem like this kind of kid- whenever I'm around him, he's not rowdy or obnoxious or anything, though I guess I'm just around at big family get-togethers, where my brother probably has one kid and my SIL has the other.
Any BTDT? Advice I can give her?
Thanks! :)