mariza
09-11-2011, 05:47 PM
But DD and DS really want to play with them so I put on my game face and let them, but I really really am getting sick of this BS!
Next door neighbor, I'll call her "B" is 6 and has had free roam of the neighborhood as long as I've known her since she was two. Wanders around with no supervision and her mom is never home and according to my babysitter who also sits for this girl, there is never any food in the house which would explain why I am always feeding her! There is a family that owns a home on a pond across the street from us and only uses the house on weekends. I'll call her kids "C" and "D". This Mom lives in the city and has openly said to me that they love spending weekends here because they feel that the neighborhood is safe (on a cul de sac) they just let the kids roam and don't worry about them. Hello, there is plenty to worry about...2 surrounding ponds, a cranberry bog that is easily accessible and lots of woods to get lost in.
I make my kids wear helmets, I make them tell me where there are and they must check in every so often. These kids go wherever they want, try to ride my kids bikes without helmets and the parents don't seem to give a crap. I can be supportive of free range parenting, but when your "free range" equals my having to supervise and give your kids snacks that were meant to go to school with my kids AND your little brats tell me they don't like the Lorna Doones and can they have the xyz instead I get really annoyed.
Then they whine and beg to use our waterside and I don't even want my own kids on it because I am battling a head cold and I just want to sit on the couch drinking tea. Finally I relent and say, fine you can go on the waterside, BUT you have to bring your own grown-up to watch you because I will not be responsible for 3 kids that don't belong to me, guess what? Not one adult came. Not that I'm surprised because they are not interested in watching their own kids. So then B, C and D decide to leave my kids and go swimming in C and D's pond. I won't let my kids go because I'm sick and don't want to go out and don't trust others to watch my kids near water. But when they are done swimming, they come right back and want to play in our sandbox and on our swings! Sorry I'm ranting all over the place, I've just had it with rude kids that are using mine when they are bored.
The girl next door is particularly upsetting because I feel bad and I want to help her, but her mom just doesn't care so I feel like why should I? Leaves "B" in the care of her 10 year old son with known mental health issues while she works and when she's not working she spends hours at the gym and/or the bar looking for her next man. For example last week B was on her brothers motor bike riding down hill until she crashed into the neighbors house. My kids were paralyzed with fear watching their friend crash (luckily she actually had a helmet on) and was not seriously injured, but could have easily been killed. She weighs about 35 lbs and is wayyyy to small for that kind of bike. When the other neighbor and I told the kids to call their mother she never bothered coming home from work to deal with the situation. The bike caused damage to neighbors house. Ugghh I wish she would just move already like she has been saying for the last 4 years!
Next door neighbor, I'll call her "B" is 6 and has had free roam of the neighborhood as long as I've known her since she was two. Wanders around with no supervision and her mom is never home and according to my babysitter who also sits for this girl, there is never any food in the house which would explain why I am always feeding her! There is a family that owns a home on a pond across the street from us and only uses the house on weekends. I'll call her kids "C" and "D". This Mom lives in the city and has openly said to me that they love spending weekends here because they feel that the neighborhood is safe (on a cul de sac) they just let the kids roam and don't worry about them. Hello, there is plenty to worry about...2 surrounding ponds, a cranberry bog that is easily accessible and lots of woods to get lost in.
I make my kids wear helmets, I make them tell me where there are and they must check in every so often. These kids go wherever they want, try to ride my kids bikes without helmets and the parents don't seem to give a crap. I can be supportive of free range parenting, but when your "free range" equals my having to supervise and give your kids snacks that were meant to go to school with my kids AND your little brats tell me they don't like the Lorna Doones and can they have the xyz instead I get really annoyed.
Then they whine and beg to use our waterside and I don't even want my own kids on it because I am battling a head cold and I just want to sit on the couch drinking tea. Finally I relent and say, fine you can go on the waterside, BUT you have to bring your own grown-up to watch you because I will not be responsible for 3 kids that don't belong to me, guess what? Not one adult came. Not that I'm surprised because they are not interested in watching their own kids. So then B, C and D decide to leave my kids and go swimming in C and D's pond. I won't let my kids go because I'm sick and don't want to go out and don't trust others to watch my kids near water. But when they are done swimming, they come right back and want to play in our sandbox and on our swings! Sorry I'm ranting all over the place, I've just had it with rude kids that are using mine when they are bored.
The girl next door is particularly upsetting because I feel bad and I want to help her, but her mom just doesn't care so I feel like why should I? Leaves "B" in the care of her 10 year old son with known mental health issues while she works and when she's not working she spends hours at the gym and/or the bar looking for her next man. For example last week B was on her brothers motor bike riding down hill until she crashed into the neighbors house. My kids were paralyzed with fear watching their friend crash (luckily she actually had a helmet on) and was not seriously injured, but could have easily been killed. She weighs about 35 lbs and is wayyyy to small for that kind of bike. When the other neighbor and I told the kids to call their mother she never bothered coming home from work to deal with the situation. The bike caused damage to neighbors house. Ugghh I wish she would just move already like she has been saying for the last 4 years!