gobadgers
09-28-2011, 02:18 PM
Oh boy. Heavy topic for a nice fall day. I just found out my uncle died. He lived 4 hours away, and we saw him (and some other family in the same town) about 4-5 times a year.
I am blindsided by this - both in terms of his death and how to approach the topic with the kids. DD has been asking about death recently. Any cliff notes advice would be really appreciated, or books/articles/references that I can read online or check out from the library. I feel very unprepared.
I don't think I will need to discuss with them right away, but if we don't talk about it, DD would definitely ask about him next time we visit(probably Thanksgiving). And DS (2 YO) is not ready for any of it. Right?
TIA.
I am blindsided by this - both in terms of his death and how to approach the topic with the kids. DD has been asking about death recently. Any cliff notes advice would be really appreciated, or books/articles/references that I can read online or check out from the library. I feel very unprepared.
I don't think I will need to discuss with them right away, but if we don't talk about it, DD would definitely ask about him next time we visit(probably Thanksgiving). And DS (2 YO) is not ready for any of it. Right?
TIA.