Toba
10-03-2011, 05:04 PM
My DS is 7 and has a friend (actually a cousin-in-law) that's the same age. They've been playing together since they were about four. There were a few times that we had to separate them because of bad behavior (usually from the friend; he's got a touch of evil in him ... glued himself to a chair, called my nephew (who was in 5th grade at the time, helping the younger ones) a m-fer (only he used the whole word) and screaming at his teacher, etc.). They've been playing together again lately since the summer and things are generally going well. I usually let his friend (N) come over on M-W-F because those are the days that DH comes home on time (instead of being in school) to give me a break. His mom usually picks him up at 6 pm and I get them from the bus stop at 3 pm. And let me tell you, those three hours are the longest ones in the day.
It's a rule that they have to finish their homework before snacks and play and normally they're good with that. They both played hooky on Friday (Thursday they were off from school for the holiday) so they had extra homework today. N did his homework without complaint and was really good taking direction. I checked it, made him make corrections and he was courteous. DS on the other hand was a monster. They usually have the same homework because they're in the same grade but DS had a bit more and was VERY unfocused because N was done with his stuff and DS was still sitting here doing homework. I let him leave two pages undone to go play, mainly for my own sanity. I'm going nuts. I feel like N's mother is using me as a babysitter lately .... she stopped over on the way out and had N ask if it was okay if he stayed here for a few hours because he didn't want to go shopping with his mom. DH said no because he had his own homework to do (he's in grad school and every spare minute he has is done doing homework .... which leaves me feeling lonely and neglected, which isn't fair to either of us).
I have panic disorder and as soon as DH comes home, I hide in my iPod because I'm just so overwhelmed. I don't want to cut out the play with N because he's really the only one that he has play dates with ... he plays with his cousins here and there too. Right now they're upstairs screaming and carrying on ... I think they're playing hide and seek. Outside isn't an option because of the weather today. I don't know what to do. I guess this is God's way of telling me that I should give up on my baby lust.
*turns up the iPod*
It's a rule that they have to finish their homework before snacks and play and normally they're good with that. They both played hooky on Friday (Thursday they were off from school for the holiday) so they had extra homework today. N did his homework without complaint and was really good taking direction. I checked it, made him make corrections and he was courteous. DS on the other hand was a monster. They usually have the same homework because they're in the same grade but DS had a bit more and was VERY unfocused because N was done with his stuff and DS was still sitting here doing homework. I let him leave two pages undone to go play, mainly for my own sanity. I'm going nuts. I feel like N's mother is using me as a babysitter lately .... she stopped over on the way out and had N ask if it was okay if he stayed here for a few hours because he didn't want to go shopping with his mom. DH said no because he had his own homework to do (he's in grad school and every spare minute he has is done doing homework .... which leaves me feeling lonely and neglected, which isn't fair to either of us).
I have panic disorder and as soon as DH comes home, I hide in my iPod because I'm just so overwhelmed. I don't want to cut out the play with N because he's really the only one that he has play dates with ... he plays with his cousins here and there too. Right now they're upstairs screaming and carrying on ... I think they're playing hide and seek. Outside isn't an option because of the weather today. I don't know what to do. I guess this is God's way of telling me that I should give up on my baby lust.
*turns up the iPod*