SammyeGail
10-12-2011, 10:48 AM
I'm not really bitching, aggravated is a better work. Very sad and feeling like my name should be added to Murphy's Law.
I hope this does not end up too long. It started lightly, DS was being a bit too hyper in school, his teacher tried to 'restrain' him. It was a male kindergarten teacher. DS did not do it on purpose, but spazzing out he kicked his teacher in the crotch. That equals 'alternative' school. DS was home with me for 3 weeks. Ordeal of trying 2 AD/HD meds., both made him worse. This was the second week of school, good news, he loves his new school.
I did post about this, I was assaulted by male neighbor 9-14. It is only considered minor assault because I got away before he raped me, so nothing would be done to him. Its documented with the police. The next day DH said it was ok for us to get the new puppy, a 3 month old Yorkie. She was so great with DS.
Next day, 9-16, I was taking DS to school, SUV ran intersection into us. Hit my car's front fender, so hard it shifted the motor off its mount. I was ok, now have found out me neck is messed up, I can hardly turn it to the right. New Yorkie was in the car, got her front leg broken, pins put in. Good news, the boys are great!
Ins. Co. finally total car, we have 4 days to find a new car, thats when we have to turn in the rental. It will take 3-4 business days for us to receive the funds from the totaled car. Makes lots of sense, huh??? Its another ordeal trying to find a car we like, we were no where near in the market for a new car. We had one payment left on totaled car, were going to keep it a while.
DH was wanting a Toyota Solara (convertible), I understand the appeal, but was not keen on the lack of visibility. I was looking at a pre-owned Lexus IS. I had to accept it was too small for our family and the premium gas cost-not! I had test driven a Nissan Rouge, it was very nice, DH was not into it at all. He finally looks into it, opens up as an option. We were both going to look at it during lunch 10-4, had to turn in rental the 5th.
(((((LOSS MENTIONED!!!))))
DH gets a call during lunch from his mother. His sister had taken her life. SIL was very sick, MIL found her when she went by after work. It was one of the most rare ways to do it, it was, ummm, very messy. DH was upset that night, he has to fly to AZ asap to help his mom take care of everything. His sister had alot of anger and mental issues, they have talked maybe once a year since he and I have been together. MIL has Aspergers, so she is not very emotional. At least she handled it well. The next day she and DH were mostly feeling relief she was hopefully at peace, and relief of her health problems.
DH was flying out the AM of the 5th, I could tell I was getting sick the night before, had to go to dr, sinus infection. DH had decided to wait a day to fly out. The Ins. Co., had extended the rental until this Monday, thats the day DH would get back, not much help. So we go buy a Rouge after my doctor's appt., less than 24 hours since his sister had died.
$1000 for a plane ticket, DH leaves, its me sick with a sinus infection, very distressed about his sister, her emotions, how horrible she must have felt to do that, with the boys. I'm holding it together for the boys but I am beyond drained. I had been going on aprx. 5 hours of sleep a night for a while.
My sister sends me a text Fri. afternoon saying my Dad had a heart attack. A TEXT!?! I'm scrambling to get in touch with DH, see what I can get together to drive up there, etc. I had texted her back to ask her WHAT was going on, WHERE was he, etc. (no reply for over an hour & not answering phone). Then it hits me that it will be me and the boys in a hotel room, no one to watch them, they can't go in hospital. DH is upset, trying to find a flight back. When sis finally texted me back, the nurse that stopped by to see him said he had 'most likely' had a heart attack/stroke. They decided not to take him to a hospital, it would upset him more. They have POA. Honestly, so much sh!t had happened I felt I could handle anything more. Just bring it on, hit us all at once.
I get 2-3 basic text from oldest sis until Sunday afternoon, saying my Dad had made a miraculous recovery, he was back to his usual self. As for my situation with my Dad, he lives with my full-sister who will not communicate with me, I call and never get an answer, its been at least 6 weeks since I have talked to him. DH and I talk about going up there (right after school started-ha.ha.), but to drive, knock on her door and no one answering!?! We couldn't figure out what to do. I had been finding out what I could via mssg on facebook with my 16 yr old niece.
Yesterday was an ok day, what I would have called a good day. Got the boys on the buses great, they had great days at school. I lied back down and slept until 11AM. I felt better.
Puppy Yorkie is finally relieved on crate arrest and able to move around a little more. I HAD to wash dishes, was trying to do that yesterday afternoon. Lilly (puppy) was sitting on the couch chewing on a piece of rawhide, she was very content. When I went to the sink, she jumped up on the back of the couch. (kit sink, over it the bar, then living room, all open). I put her back on the couch, she went back to chewing. again jumped on the back of the couch. I asked DS if he would put her on the floor, he says 'sure Mommy!'. He doesn't get 2 steps to the couch when she takes a flying leap off. Not to get away from him, she was being a puppy, a feisty one and thinking she's invincible. She has broken her other front leg.
She's in surgery now getting a plate put on that one. $1400-1600. I want to change her name to money pit.
I might have left some things out, its all so insane I can't remember. Oh, DS with autism was twirling his hair so much he had a bald spot right in front. We had to cut it real short so he would stop messing with it, he has a huge hairless circle about 5" around. School pics were yesterday. hahahaha.
WTH can happen next!?! I have been in a state of shock for weeks. I know of one person, a friend of DH's who has had this much happen so quick. In a week he found out his wife was cheating on him, his sister passed away and his mother had a heart attack (she's fine).
My mother always said 'what doesn't kill you always makes you stronger'. I think I will study the Book of Job, DH and I are both wondering what on earth God is trying to show/teach us.
:banghead:
I hope this does not end up too long. It started lightly, DS was being a bit too hyper in school, his teacher tried to 'restrain' him. It was a male kindergarten teacher. DS did not do it on purpose, but spazzing out he kicked his teacher in the crotch. That equals 'alternative' school. DS was home with me for 3 weeks. Ordeal of trying 2 AD/HD meds., both made him worse. This was the second week of school, good news, he loves his new school.
I did post about this, I was assaulted by male neighbor 9-14. It is only considered minor assault because I got away before he raped me, so nothing would be done to him. Its documented with the police. The next day DH said it was ok for us to get the new puppy, a 3 month old Yorkie. She was so great with DS.
Next day, 9-16, I was taking DS to school, SUV ran intersection into us. Hit my car's front fender, so hard it shifted the motor off its mount. I was ok, now have found out me neck is messed up, I can hardly turn it to the right. New Yorkie was in the car, got her front leg broken, pins put in. Good news, the boys are great!
Ins. Co. finally total car, we have 4 days to find a new car, thats when we have to turn in the rental. It will take 3-4 business days for us to receive the funds from the totaled car. Makes lots of sense, huh??? Its another ordeal trying to find a car we like, we were no where near in the market for a new car. We had one payment left on totaled car, were going to keep it a while.
DH was wanting a Toyota Solara (convertible), I understand the appeal, but was not keen on the lack of visibility. I was looking at a pre-owned Lexus IS. I had to accept it was too small for our family and the premium gas cost-not! I had test driven a Nissan Rouge, it was very nice, DH was not into it at all. He finally looks into it, opens up as an option. We were both going to look at it during lunch 10-4, had to turn in rental the 5th.
(((((LOSS MENTIONED!!!))))
DH gets a call during lunch from his mother. His sister had taken her life. SIL was very sick, MIL found her when she went by after work. It was one of the most rare ways to do it, it was, ummm, very messy. DH was upset that night, he has to fly to AZ asap to help his mom take care of everything. His sister had alot of anger and mental issues, they have talked maybe once a year since he and I have been together. MIL has Aspergers, so she is not very emotional. At least she handled it well. The next day she and DH were mostly feeling relief she was hopefully at peace, and relief of her health problems.
DH was flying out the AM of the 5th, I could tell I was getting sick the night before, had to go to dr, sinus infection. DH had decided to wait a day to fly out. The Ins. Co., had extended the rental until this Monday, thats the day DH would get back, not much help. So we go buy a Rouge after my doctor's appt., less than 24 hours since his sister had died.
$1000 for a plane ticket, DH leaves, its me sick with a sinus infection, very distressed about his sister, her emotions, how horrible she must have felt to do that, with the boys. I'm holding it together for the boys but I am beyond drained. I had been going on aprx. 5 hours of sleep a night for a while.
My sister sends me a text Fri. afternoon saying my Dad had a heart attack. A TEXT!?! I'm scrambling to get in touch with DH, see what I can get together to drive up there, etc. I had texted her back to ask her WHAT was going on, WHERE was he, etc. (no reply for over an hour & not answering phone). Then it hits me that it will be me and the boys in a hotel room, no one to watch them, they can't go in hospital. DH is upset, trying to find a flight back. When sis finally texted me back, the nurse that stopped by to see him said he had 'most likely' had a heart attack/stroke. They decided not to take him to a hospital, it would upset him more. They have POA. Honestly, so much sh!t had happened I felt I could handle anything more. Just bring it on, hit us all at once.
I get 2-3 basic text from oldest sis until Sunday afternoon, saying my Dad had made a miraculous recovery, he was back to his usual self. As for my situation with my Dad, he lives with my full-sister who will not communicate with me, I call and never get an answer, its been at least 6 weeks since I have talked to him. DH and I talk about going up there (right after school started-ha.ha.), but to drive, knock on her door and no one answering!?! We couldn't figure out what to do. I had been finding out what I could via mssg on facebook with my 16 yr old niece.
Yesterday was an ok day, what I would have called a good day. Got the boys on the buses great, they had great days at school. I lied back down and slept until 11AM. I felt better.
Puppy Yorkie is finally relieved on crate arrest and able to move around a little more. I HAD to wash dishes, was trying to do that yesterday afternoon. Lilly (puppy) was sitting on the couch chewing on a piece of rawhide, she was very content. When I went to the sink, she jumped up on the back of the couch. (kit sink, over it the bar, then living room, all open). I put her back on the couch, she went back to chewing. again jumped on the back of the couch. I asked DS if he would put her on the floor, he says 'sure Mommy!'. He doesn't get 2 steps to the couch when she takes a flying leap off. Not to get away from him, she was being a puppy, a feisty one and thinking she's invincible. She has broken her other front leg.
She's in surgery now getting a plate put on that one. $1400-1600. I want to change her name to money pit.
I might have left some things out, its all so insane I can't remember. Oh, DS with autism was twirling his hair so much he had a bald spot right in front. We had to cut it real short so he would stop messing with it, he has a huge hairless circle about 5" around. School pics were yesterday. hahahaha.
WTH can happen next!?! I have been in a state of shock for weeks. I know of one person, a friend of DH's who has had this much happen so quick. In a week he found out his wife was cheating on him, his sister passed away and his mother had a heart attack (she's fine).
My mother always said 'what doesn't kill you always makes you stronger'. I think I will study the Book of Job, DH and I are both wondering what on earth God is trying to show/teach us.
:banghead: