maestramommy
10-19-2011, 03:04 PM
I am very motivated to get Laurel Pt'd in the next several months because I'm interested in a Montessori preschool. But the kid has to be fully (unassisted) PT'd by then. This is totally uncharted territory for me, as we've sort of followed the kid's lead with Dora and Arwyn, or at least pushed when it got really late in the day.
For starters Laurel does know how to pee in the potty, does it every day before nap and bedtime. But she never wants to go otherwise. When she sits down to pee, I can see from her face that she is actually pushing/straining the pee out, as if she's pooping. Is that normal? I mean, does that mean peeing is a deliberate act of will, signally maybe her physical parts aren't quite ready? I always thought you keep holding the pee until you get to the toilet, then you relax and it just comes out.
she's only pooped on the potty a couple of times, and that was when she had just pee'd, and I encouraged her to try pooping because I knew she was due. Otherwise she just doesn't want to poop on the potty.
She hates diaper changes, always struggles, and if she has had a wet/messy diaper for a while her bum is red and cleaning it is a pain, literally. During these times I just keep telling her that if she doesn't like this she needs to pee and poop on the potty instead of her diaper. I have this spiel now that I end up rattling off at diaper changes 9 times out of 10. A couple of days ago Dh overheard me and said, "Ah, she's only 2, she doesn't get it yet." Which I appreciate, I just figured I should say something since she gives me such a hard time during changes.
Official registration starts Jan, but they start taking applications in Dec. Obviously the director told me if I really want a space to get in early. And so far this is our only real hangup. I mean, if she really can't PT in time there's nothing I can do, and I don't want to risk losing her spot in her current school OR trying for a spot at the public school.
So, any tips? I remember a while back someone else really had to PT their kid by deadline. Laurel will be 3 end of June. Is it really too early to be thinking techniques? She's smart but she's also a rock, and one thing I've learned is that PTing is like sleeping and eating. You can lead a horse to water.......
For starters Laurel does know how to pee in the potty, does it every day before nap and bedtime. But she never wants to go otherwise. When she sits down to pee, I can see from her face that she is actually pushing/straining the pee out, as if she's pooping. Is that normal? I mean, does that mean peeing is a deliberate act of will, signally maybe her physical parts aren't quite ready? I always thought you keep holding the pee until you get to the toilet, then you relax and it just comes out.
she's only pooped on the potty a couple of times, and that was when she had just pee'd, and I encouraged her to try pooping because I knew she was due. Otherwise she just doesn't want to poop on the potty.
She hates diaper changes, always struggles, and if she has had a wet/messy diaper for a while her bum is red and cleaning it is a pain, literally. During these times I just keep telling her that if she doesn't like this she needs to pee and poop on the potty instead of her diaper. I have this spiel now that I end up rattling off at diaper changes 9 times out of 10. A couple of days ago Dh overheard me and said, "Ah, she's only 2, she doesn't get it yet." Which I appreciate, I just figured I should say something since she gives me such a hard time during changes.
Official registration starts Jan, but they start taking applications in Dec. Obviously the director told me if I really want a space to get in early. And so far this is our only real hangup. I mean, if she really can't PT in time there's nothing I can do, and I don't want to risk losing her spot in her current school OR trying for a spot at the public school.
So, any tips? I remember a while back someone else really had to PT their kid by deadline. Laurel will be 3 end of June. Is it really too early to be thinking techniques? She's smart but she's also a rock, and one thing I've learned is that PTing is like sleeping and eating. You can lead a horse to water.......