lalasmama
12-28-2011, 09:13 PM
The short question is: How much do you answer to other people's children when they ask you a yes/no question?
Today's example isn't a one-time incident by any means... DD's daycare friend wanted DD to spend the night. I've already told her "not until at after school starts again" about 5 times this week and last week. She's whiny and begging each time I come to pick DD up. To be honest, it drives me batty. Taking care of her for the night is pretty time-intensive. This child has also made some poor choices lately, and we've told the girls there will be no overnights for now.
I'm trying not to be mean about it, but I just wanna tell the child "this isn't up for discussion" (like I would tell DD), but this child's mom is one of those great parents who would explain the denial, complete with an exact date of when her request will be approved. I'm not like that.
So, what would you do?
Today's example isn't a one-time incident by any means... DD's daycare friend wanted DD to spend the night. I've already told her "not until at after school starts again" about 5 times this week and last week. She's whiny and begging each time I come to pick DD up. To be honest, it drives me batty. Taking care of her for the night is pretty time-intensive. This child has also made some poor choices lately, and we've told the girls there will be no overnights for now.
I'm trying not to be mean about it, but I just wanna tell the child "this isn't up for discussion" (like I would tell DD), but this child's mom is one of those great parents who would explain the denial, complete with an exact date of when her request will be approved. I'm not like that.
So, what would you do?