EJensen
12-30-2011, 02:14 PM
My 18 month old wakes up so early, screaming, and also screams most of his naps now!
We were very good about teaching him to self soothe since he was capable of not needing a feeding at night (6 months) but it took him 2 months of crying every night to actually learn it (I thought it was only supposed to take 3 days?!). He was doing well for about 6 months but just in the last month, he's been waking up at night screaming for over an hour or two. We don't go check on him. Ever. We sleep with earplugs but his scream is so loud the earplugs can't even drown it out. He has a solid bedtime routine and puts himself to sleep at night but wakes up in the middle of the night and screams and screams and screams. Even if he does fall back to sleep momentarily, he'll continue to scream most of the night. We won't get him before 6 am (still too early in my opinion but he's just an early riser - definitey didn't get that from me!). We've been letting him cry it out (CIO sorry, I'm new and don't know all the acronyms - what is DD, DS, DH??) but this has been going on now for weeks. Isn't he supposed to learn by now that we aren't coming for him before 6 am?
I feel like we've done everything right: solid bedtime routine, taught him to self-soothe, we don't go check on him or encourage his protests, he has loveys in his crib, in bed by 8 pm and we won't get him before 6 am.... but he still protests almost every night and now he's doing it at nap time too! his daycare said he's now doing it there too (he used to sleep a solid 2 hours during the day). Any ideas!?! I'm so tired!
We were very good about teaching him to self soothe since he was capable of not needing a feeding at night (6 months) but it took him 2 months of crying every night to actually learn it (I thought it was only supposed to take 3 days?!). He was doing well for about 6 months but just in the last month, he's been waking up at night screaming for over an hour or two. We don't go check on him. Ever. We sleep with earplugs but his scream is so loud the earplugs can't even drown it out. He has a solid bedtime routine and puts himself to sleep at night but wakes up in the middle of the night and screams and screams and screams. Even if he does fall back to sleep momentarily, he'll continue to scream most of the night. We won't get him before 6 am (still too early in my opinion but he's just an early riser - definitey didn't get that from me!). We've been letting him cry it out (CIO sorry, I'm new and don't know all the acronyms - what is DD, DS, DH??) but this has been going on now for weeks. Isn't he supposed to learn by now that we aren't coming for him before 6 am?
I feel like we've done everything right: solid bedtime routine, taught him to self-soothe, we don't go check on him or encourage his protests, he has loveys in his crib, in bed by 8 pm and we won't get him before 6 am.... but he still protests almost every night and now he's doing it at nap time too! his daycare said he's now doing it there too (he used to sleep a solid 2 hours during the day). Any ideas!?! I'm so tired!