ha98ed14
01-03-2012, 12:53 AM
In the last 6 weeks, DD has started:
+ Waking up in the night. She's always been a great sleeper, and she usually goes to sleep fine, but the last few weeks she's been waking up in the middle of the night. It's like having an infant again. She wakes up crying and needs us to go in to get her to go back to sleep. Sometimes when that doesn't work, we have to let her CIO.
+ Crying at the drop of a hat when something is not the way she wants it. Instead of asking to be scooted in to the table, or for her sandwich to be cut in half, she immediately starts crying. She starts crying even before asking for help! Where did this come from?!? She does not even give us the chance to say "No." or do it wrong (according to her), she just immediately starts crying! She was NOT like this before! She was a happy kid who just asked for help.
+ Being really mouthy. Rude. Disrespectful. To me. And not to DH. He has better boundaries and follow through with consequences than I do, so some of it is probably my fault. She's always been a Daddy's Girl; now I feel like she's a Wish-I-Didn't-Have-You-For-A-Mommy Girl.
+ Lying. But she's totally stupid about it. She'll ask DH, "Can I do XYZ?" He'll say no, and then she will come and tell me that he said she could and could I help her set it up. That was today.
Another instance from today: She went to the bathroom and left the door open. I happen to see her hop off the pot, pull her pants up and come out to the living room. DH was cooking and she says, "Can I help? I washed my hands!" Um, no, she didn't. I called her on it and told her I just saw her get off the toilet and walk out here and she didn't wash them. And yes I am 100% sure that I did not miss her doing it. DH sent her back and told her not to lie and to wash her hands if she wanted to help.
Seriously, I think she spends half the day in tears when she is home, but she is happy as a clam at school. School reports no behavior issues. Did we spoil her THIS badly that she cries over every little thing?!?
+ Waking up in the night. She's always been a great sleeper, and she usually goes to sleep fine, but the last few weeks she's been waking up in the middle of the night. It's like having an infant again. She wakes up crying and needs us to go in to get her to go back to sleep. Sometimes when that doesn't work, we have to let her CIO.
+ Crying at the drop of a hat when something is not the way she wants it. Instead of asking to be scooted in to the table, or for her sandwich to be cut in half, she immediately starts crying. She starts crying even before asking for help! Where did this come from?!? She does not even give us the chance to say "No." or do it wrong (according to her), she just immediately starts crying! She was NOT like this before! She was a happy kid who just asked for help.
+ Being really mouthy. Rude. Disrespectful. To me. And not to DH. He has better boundaries and follow through with consequences than I do, so some of it is probably my fault. She's always been a Daddy's Girl; now I feel like she's a Wish-I-Didn't-Have-You-For-A-Mommy Girl.
+ Lying. But she's totally stupid about it. She'll ask DH, "Can I do XYZ?" He'll say no, and then she will come and tell me that he said she could and could I help her set it up. That was today.
Another instance from today: She went to the bathroom and left the door open. I happen to see her hop off the pot, pull her pants up and come out to the living room. DH was cooking and she says, "Can I help? I washed my hands!" Um, no, she didn't. I called her on it and told her I just saw her get off the toilet and walk out here and she didn't wash them. And yes I am 100% sure that I did not miss her doing it. DH sent her back and told her not to lie and to wash her hands if she wanted to help.
Seriously, I think she spends half the day in tears when she is home, but she is happy as a clam at school. School reports no behavior issues. Did we spoil her THIS badly that she cries over every little thing?!?