firstbaby
02-02-2012, 02:39 PM
DH's work travel is going to be increasing - I am thinking up to 3 or 4 days a month. Though he can mostly control the dates, the regular travel will need to be done to be successful as his role in the company evolves. He has been with the company for several years.
He is on travel this week and has been a basket case. His sister died on 9/11 and he has travelled as little as possible since. This trip has been the worst because it has been multiple flights to multiple cities and long flights to boot. He was crying when he left and called me from the airport yesterday getting ready to board another flight and was about to break down. He has physical symptoms besides the crying - his heart races, he gets sweaty, feels his vision closing in. He has also only slept three hours each of the nights he has been gone.
He wants to have a conversation with his boss to say he can't travel any more. This would gravely limit his success in his position. I love him and want to support him. Do I recommend counseling? Some kind of anxiety assessment? What resources should I be leveraging for him?
He is on travel this week and has been a basket case. His sister died on 9/11 and he has travelled as little as possible since. This trip has been the worst because it has been multiple flights to multiple cities and long flights to boot. He was crying when he left and called me from the airport yesterday getting ready to board another flight and was about to break down. He has physical symptoms besides the crying - his heart races, he gets sweaty, feels his vision closing in. He has also only slept three hours each of the nights he has been gone.
He wants to have a conversation with his boss to say he can't travel any more. This would gravely limit his success in his position. I love him and want to support him. Do I recommend counseling? Some kind of anxiety assessment? What resources should I be leveraging for him?