hillview
03-21-2012, 06:21 PM
DS2 has been complaining about another child "M" in his class. I have seen M for the last 2 years and have observed his mom totally ignoring obvious misbehavior issues (like hitting or pushing down to the ground another child) at school and at birthday parties.
Last week DS2 said M "wanted to kill me" and "wanted to kill my teachers"
M is 5 or 6 in a 3-6 year old class. I told DS2 to tell a teacher if M said that and that of course M couldn't really kill him or his teachers. DS2 also said that he has been in a fight with M and I said to not hit etc.
Sooooo yesterday there was another altercation. Again this morning DS2 said M wanted to kill him and then going to school to day was an all out horrible experience with DS2 fighting to not go to school in a panic. He is not usually like this (he has other issues to be sure but he is not ever afraid to go to school). We finally got to school and bless the teachers they are awesome.
Long story short there are BIG issues with M. I am SO SO annoyed with myself and with M's parents. The 2 teachers made it VERY VERY clear to me that the other parents are not taking this seriously and have encouraged me to escalate this issue to the Head of School. They are not hair trigger teachers by any means and I assume that the issue is much much more significant than I had understood it to be.
I am just so annoyed and feel awful that I didn't email the teachers last week. I just know that kids say mean stuff from time to time so I chalked it up to this vs it being a systemic issue.
I know this is a BP but ideas are welcome.
SIGH
/hillary
Last week DS2 said M "wanted to kill me" and "wanted to kill my teachers"
M is 5 or 6 in a 3-6 year old class. I told DS2 to tell a teacher if M said that and that of course M couldn't really kill him or his teachers. DS2 also said that he has been in a fight with M and I said to not hit etc.
Sooooo yesterday there was another altercation. Again this morning DS2 said M wanted to kill him and then going to school to day was an all out horrible experience with DS2 fighting to not go to school in a panic. He is not usually like this (he has other issues to be sure but he is not ever afraid to go to school). We finally got to school and bless the teachers they are awesome.
Long story short there are BIG issues with M. I am SO SO annoyed with myself and with M's parents. The 2 teachers made it VERY VERY clear to me that the other parents are not taking this seriously and have encouraged me to escalate this issue to the Head of School. They are not hair trigger teachers by any means and I assume that the issue is much much more significant than I had understood it to be.
I am just so annoyed and feel awful that I didn't email the teachers last week. I just know that kids say mean stuff from time to time so I chalked it up to this vs it being a systemic issue.
I know this is a BP but ideas are welcome.
SIGH
/hillary