MamaInMarch
04-19-2012, 12:33 AM
Just a general vent because it makes me crazy and I certainly can't vent to DH.
My DH's family are some messed up folks. His grandparents have only met our 6 month old once and that was because we went to see his brother who was in from FL and they were there too. And his grandmother even said she passes our house daily on the way to see her mother at the nursing home. Any time we have gone out to visit them it is because we have called to stop out. They don't call DH or the kids on his/their birthday or any other holiday. The rest of his family is the same. His aunt hasn't seen the kids in months and she is our way three times a week. I tried inviting them, calling them, etc. to get the ball rolling but it's pointless. It really infuriates me because it hurts that my kids are so insignificant to them. And that my DH wishes his family would be excited about his kids and they just don't f-ing care.
I know I am not alone. I have seen post after post here about family/grandparents that don't have anything to do with BBB members kids for no reason. I just don't understand what screw is loose in people who do this. Regardless, it sucks and it hurts. I want to tell them all what I think of them and flip every last one of them the bird.
My DH's family are some messed up folks. His grandparents have only met our 6 month old once and that was because we went to see his brother who was in from FL and they were there too. And his grandmother even said she passes our house daily on the way to see her mother at the nursing home. Any time we have gone out to visit them it is because we have called to stop out. They don't call DH or the kids on his/their birthday or any other holiday. The rest of his family is the same. His aunt hasn't seen the kids in months and she is our way three times a week. I tried inviting them, calling them, etc. to get the ball rolling but it's pointless. It really infuriates me because it hurts that my kids are so insignificant to them. And that my DH wishes his family would be excited about his kids and they just don't f-ing care.
I know I am not alone. I have seen post after post here about family/grandparents that don't have anything to do with BBB members kids for no reason. I just don't understand what screw is loose in people who do this. Regardless, it sucks and it hurts. I want to tell them all what I think of them and flip every last one of them the bird.