rin
05-09-2012, 06:45 PM
Oh man! So for the past few weeks, DD (24 months) has been coming home from school and telling us stories about her biting one particular boy in her class, or stories about how this boy hit/bit/hurt her stuffed animal. We didn't really pay much attention to these stories because (a) she's been extremely interested in this one boy for the past year, and was always coming home with made-up stories about him, and (b) we figured that her teachers would have told us if there were any actual biting incidents.
Well, today, I went to pick her up, and decided to ask her teachers if anything had happened. They were telling me that in fact she had tried to bite this boy a few times, but they'd managed to catch it each time, when . . . we heard wails, turned around, and she'd just bitten him!!! I'm sure she heard us talking about biting, and decided this was a great opportunity since no adults were paying attention.
I'm horrified by this, not to mention kicking myself for being such an idiot as to bring it up in front of her. Anyways, the whole point of my post is: what should we do? Obviously we don't want to raise a biting sociopath, but what's the best way to clearly communicate that this is absolutely not ok? In the car on the way home we talked a bit about how sad that had made the boy who was bitten, and how sad it made us that he had been bitten. I don't want to dwell on it, or give her lots of (negative) attention over it, but I really, really, really don't want this to become a problem.
Any advice/BTDT?
Well, today, I went to pick her up, and decided to ask her teachers if anything had happened. They were telling me that in fact she had tried to bite this boy a few times, but they'd managed to catch it each time, when . . . we heard wails, turned around, and she'd just bitten him!!! I'm sure she heard us talking about biting, and decided this was a great opportunity since no adults were paying attention.
I'm horrified by this, not to mention kicking myself for being such an idiot as to bring it up in front of her. Anyways, the whole point of my post is: what should we do? Obviously we don't want to raise a biting sociopath, but what's the best way to clearly communicate that this is absolutely not ok? In the car on the way home we talked a bit about how sad that had made the boy who was bitten, and how sad it made us that he had been bitten. I don't want to dwell on it, or give her lots of (negative) attention over it, but I really, really, really don't want this to become a problem.
Any advice/BTDT?