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swissair81
06-03-2012, 09:43 AM
Today is the 25th anniversary of my father's death. I feel like he's missed so much of my life. He died when I was 6. He's missed everything from my first day of 1st grade to my high school graduation, to my wedding, and meeting his grandchildren. As I get older, I realize how tragic it was for a 35 year old to just stop living during the course of a normal day. I also realize that i have to be grateful for every second of my life.

missym
06-03-2012, 09:58 AM
I'm sorry. :hug:

infomama
06-03-2012, 09:59 AM
Sending you comfort and love today. :hug:

kdeunc
06-03-2012, 10:06 AM
:hug: I am so sorry for your loss.

larig
06-03-2012, 10:13 AM
I'm so sorry. Many many hugs for you.

MamaMolly
06-03-2012, 10:28 AM
Hugs honey. It must be a hard day.

Beth24
06-03-2012, 10:32 AM
I'm so sorry for your loss. Lots of hugs your way.

♥ms.pacman♥
06-03-2012, 10:37 AM
I am so sorry, will be thinking of you today :hug:

MontrealMum
06-03-2012, 11:23 AM
:hug: I'm so sorry.

JustMe
06-03-2012, 11:27 AM
I am so sorry. That does sound tragic for your whole family. Hugs to you.

swissair81
06-03-2012, 11:39 AM
Thanks all! I really appreciate it. I just have to add that of my siblings I'm the lucky one (I'm the oldest). I'm the only one who remembers him. My 2 younger sisters have no memories at all.

smiles33
06-03-2012, 11:43 AM
I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine losing a parent so young, especially so unexpectedly.

theriviera
06-03-2012, 11:46 AM
so sorry and sending you lots of hugs today. :hug:

AnnieW625
06-03-2012, 11:48 AM
So sorry for your loss. :hug: to you.

doberbrat
06-03-2012, 12:16 PM
I'm so sorry. I cant even imagine. Hugs

Binkandabee
06-03-2012, 12:22 PM
I am so sorry. It was tough losing my dad at 30, I can't even imagine going through that at just 6 years old. It's truly tragic and I feel for you today :(

liz
06-03-2012, 12:27 PM
:hug: I am so sorry. My dad died a few days after my engagement and wasn't there for my wedding or the birth of my children, so I understand a bit of what you are going through. Huge hugs to you.

elektra
06-03-2012, 12:36 PM
So sorry swissair. :grouphug:

strollerqueen
06-03-2012, 12:50 PM
I'm sorry. I lost my mother when I was a little girl, so I know how painful it is. Maybe you can tell your children about him, show him pictures, etc. In that way, he will live on.

hillview
06-03-2012, 01:08 PM
:grouphug::22::love2:

123LuckyMom
06-03-2012, 01:12 PM
I'm so sorry! I miss my dad, too. My cousin made a DVD recently with music, pictures of him, and some written memories. I can hardly watch it, because it makes me cry, but DS loves it and now tells stories about things he and my dad did together, though, of course, they've never met. It makes me feel better to think that although we are in pain missing him, he is not in pain missing us. We are the only ones feeling the unfairness of all he has lost and all we have lost not having him here. He is at peace.

TwinFoxes
06-03-2012, 01:15 PM
I'm sorry...it's been 10 years since my mom died and I miss her terribly. It must have been even harder losing a parent so young. :hug:

Still-in-Shock
06-03-2012, 01:15 PM
Swissair, I lost my Daddy when I was 14, and it is just as you say, every day is a gift. Just know that he would want you to be happy, and I'm sure that he is very proud of you. Sending you hugs.:hug:

brgnmom
06-03-2012, 01:21 PM
sorry for your loss. :hug: :hug:

trcy
06-03-2012, 01:22 PM
My thoughts are with you today :grouphug:

wendibird22
06-03-2012, 01:45 PM
I am so very sorry. It must be difficult to reflect on such wonderful life events knowing there will always be a bit of sadness with each of them. :grouphug:

gatorsmom
06-03-2012, 02:14 PM
I'll be thinking of you today and praying prayers of peace for you.

boogiemomz
06-03-2012, 02:18 PM
Very sorry for your loss. :hug:

wencit
06-03-2012, 02:31 PM
I'm so sorry. :hug:

erosenst
06-03-2012, 03:39 PM
So sorry. May his memory be a blessing.

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lmh2402
06-03-2012, 03:50 PM
i'm so sorry - just sending you some :hug: :hug:

dcmom2b3
06-03-2012, 04:33 PM
I'm so sorry, swissair. :grouphug: to you, today and every day.

Corie
06-03-2012, 04:37 PM
I am so sorry for your loss.

crl
06-03-2012, 04:49 PM
I am so sorry.

Catherine

Philly Mom
06-03-2012, 04:57 PM
Hugs to you.

ChunkyNicksChunkyMom
06-03-2012, 05:43 PM
Big hugs to you. I had my dad until I was 40 but that was still too soon.

calv
06-03-2012, 05:58 PM
{{{{{ HUGS }}}}} BTDT and you'd think w/time it would get easier but it def hurts once I got married, became a mother and something as simple as a dance recital would make me miss him a lot! this year will be 20 years since I lost my father.

blue
06-03-2012, 06:18 PM
:hug5:. It is hard when a loved one isn't their to share in all the times you want to share with them.....I miss my dad everyday too.

garnetgirl
06-03-2012, 06:26 PM
I'm so sorry about your sad anniversary; it's especially heartbreaking when children lose a parent at such a young age.

Globetrotter
06-03-2012, 07:04 PM
Huge hugs :grouphug:

heatherlynn
06-03-2012, 08:13 PM
I'm sorry. :grouphug:

elephantmeg
06-03-2012, 09:01 PM
wow. Huge hugs. I am so sorry

mctlaw
06-03-2012, 09:03 PM
How hard that must be for you. :hug::hug:

Multimama
06-03-2012, 09:14 PM
I'm sorry for your loss, Swissair. :hug:

DrSally
06-03-2012, 09:42 PM
I'm so sorry

malphy
06-03-2012, 09:50 PM
I am so sorry for your loss.. I lost both parents and step-parent. The pain may ease at times but it never goes away. hugs!

mackmama
06-03-2012, 09:56 PM
Oh I'm so sorry. Thinking about you...

billysmommy
06-03-2012, 09:59 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss

ECMom
06-03-2012, 10:42 PM
:grouphug:. It was 12 yrs for my Dad last Tuesday. So much has happened in my life since then as well. He lives in inside me & hence is with me everyday.

reneed
06-03-2012, 10:49 PM
I was 7 months old when my dad died so I have no memory of him, just pictures and family stories. I have a hard time with it when I look at DS or when someone mentions how I am like him in different ways. I think about all he missed too and how my life may or may not have been different if he were alive. Hugs to you