BabbyO
07-22-2012, 07:14 PM
...that he won't be going to our much loved DCP anymore?
Our sitter has been watching DS1 FT since he was 3 mos old. He is a part of their family, and they are a part of ours for the last 3 years. Late last year she had to have surgery on her foot and we had to cut back the days from 5 days/week to 2 days/week. A few months ago she started feeling strong enough to transition to 3 days/week. When we had to cut back we started going to a center.
This afternoon she called to let us know that she can't watch the kids anymore. This was a VERY difficult decision for her, but for the sake of her family, it is the right thing to do, and while it is difficult for our family, we support her 100%.
We will likely transition FT to the center as we've been very happy with them. The cost will be difficult, but we will figure it out.
While DS2 has done very well at the center, DS1 has always asked to go to the sitters house on daycare days. When we pick him off he's always having fun, and the teachers say that he does well for the most part (we've had a few behavior issues recently, but they've been minor).
So my dilemma is How do I tell DS1 we aren't going to the sitter's anymore? He's 3 yo. He still gets frustrated that I go to work when the sitter stays home with her kids (has asked me to stay home from work like sitter does). This is the decision is the right one and for the right reasons...it is going to hurt us all to a degree, but DS1 is going to take is hardest.
We will try to get together with their family, but will be a far cry from 5 days/week, or even 2 or 3 days, all day with her family.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. My heart is breaking for DS1.
Our sitter has been watching DS1 FT since he was 3 mos old. He is a part of their family, and they are a part of ours for the last 3 years. Late last year she had to have surgery on her foot and we had to cut back the days from 5 days/week to 2 days/week. A few months ago she started feeling strong enough to transition to 3 days/week. When we had to cut back we started going to a center.
This afternoon she called to let us know that she can't watch the kids anymore. This was a VERY difficult decision for her, but for the sake of her family, it is the right thing to do, and while it is difficult for our family, we support her 100%.
We will likely transition FT to the center as we've been very happy with them. The cost will be difficult, but we will figure it out.
While DS2 has done very well at the center, DS1 has always asked to go to the sitters house on daycare days. When we pick him off he's always having fun, and the teachers say that he does well for the most part (we've had a few behavior issues recently, but they've been minor).
So my dilemma is How do I tell DS1 we aren't going to the sitter's anymore? He's 3 yo. He still gets frustrated that I go to work when the sitter stays home with her kids (has asked me to stay home from work like sitter does). This is the decision is the right one and for the right reasons...it is going to hurt us all to a degree, but DS1 is going to take is hardest.
We will try to get together with their family, but will be a far cry from 5 days/week, or even 2 or 3 days, all day with her family.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. My heart is breaking for DS1.