twowhat?
08-20-2012, 06:06 PM
Cuz I'm tired of it!:)
The girls do well most of the time, so long as there has been no upset to the delicate balance that is the morning/drop-off routine.
As soon as a wrench is thrown in the works, it is always a downhill spiral. This morning at drop off, I had to walk away from 2 girls crying and SCREAMING "MOOMMMYYY!!!!" Seriously - they are almost 4 years old!!!!
And I'm dreading next week when they start Pre-K. Wondering how many weeks it will take for them to stop crying at drop off - which is what has happened during each transition to a new classroom, for weeks.
And they get excellent care at this center - they are happy and excited when I pick them up, and I have full confidence that they have a great time while they are there. But sometimes at drop-offs...wow, do they really like to pull out those behaviors to "benefit" me. Just mom, of course (because kids will always be most difficult around mom!) It makes it difficult to get through my own day at work when I have to tear myself away from bawling girls. I even plan doctor and dentist appts for late afternoon so I can pick them up and then just go home afterwards...the times when I've only been able to get morning appointments and then have to go drop them off for the rest of the day - uuuuughhh! Tears, tears, tears! It doesn't help that a friend's child (same age) started Pre-K today and bounced right in with a smile and barely a goodbye. I am happy for her that she has such an outgoing kid who hasn't cried at dropoff for more than 3 years, I really truly am and I love her kid to pieces...but it just makes me feel even more sorry for myself (wow, is that sad or what?)
So those of you with very sensitive children - at what age did your child CONSISTENTLY stop crying at drop-off, even with the occassional change in routine? How much longer will I have to hang in there and not feel like I'm walking on eggshells?
The girls do well most of the time, so long as there has been no upset to the delicate balance that is the morning/drop-off routine.
As soon as a wrench is thrown in the works, it is always a downhill spiral. This morning at drop off, I had to walk away from 2 girls crying and SCREAMING "MOOMMMYYY!!!!" Seriously - they are almost 4 years old!!!!
And I'm dreading next week when they start Pre-K. Wondering how many weeks it will take for them to stop crying at drop off - which is what has happened during each transition to a new classroom, for weeks.
And they get excellent care at this center - they are happy and excited when I pick them up, and I have full confidence that they have a great time while they are there. But sometimes at drop-offs...wow, do they really like to pull out those behaviors to "benefit" me. Just mom, of course (because kids will always be most difficult around mom!) It makes it difficult to get through my own day at work when I have to tear myself away from bawling girls. I even plan doctor and dentist appts for late afternoon so I can pick them up and then just go home afterwards...the times when I've only been able to get morning appointments and then have to go drop them off for the rest of the day - uuuuughhh! Tears, tears, tears! It doesn't help that a friend's child (same age) started Pre-K today and bounced right in with a smile and barely a goodbye. I am happy for her that she has such an outgoing kid who hasn't cried at dropoff for more than 3 years, I really truly am and I love her kid to pieces...but it just makes me feel even more sorry for myself (wow, is that sad or what?)
So those of you with very sensitive children - at what age did your child CONSISTENTLY stop crying at drop-off, even with the occassional change in routine? How much longer will I have to hang in there and not feel like I'm walking on eggshells?