rin
09-25-2012, 06:58 PM
Ok, I'm at my wits' end here, and have no idea what to do.
DD1 (2.5) has been toying with potty training for what seems like ages. For months we've had a little potty in the bathroom and a potty ring, and she's been in diapers, but has had the option of using the potty if she ever wanted. She was very excited about the potty and used to request to go all the time. Right after DD2 was born, 3 months ago, DD1 suddenly became VERY interested in the potty, and announced that she wanted to wear underpants all the time, no diapers. Ok, great, right?
So we bought her a bunch of underpants, started her in them w/frequent reminders, things were going great. She was hesitant about pooping on the potty, but was great about pee. Wore underpants to school, out on errands, etc, and everything was fine. A few accidents here and there, but nothing too serious.
So fast forward to this past week. We just switched to a Montessori preschool last week from the play-based center she had been at since she was a year old. She went last week, then had a four day weekend at home (she's only going TWR). Well, this weekend was a total disaster; she pooped in her pants three times, peed (obviously intentionally) multiple times, once right after I suggested it was a good time to go to the potty (she just looked at me and let loose). Ok, so finally Sunday we asked if she would be happier just wearing diapers again. She said yes, but then kept ripping the diapers off and peeing on the floor, etc. Argh!
We sent her to school today in diapers, but her school put her back into underpants (I think there may have been some misunderstanding?) and then told me she'd had "diarrhea". Well, when I opened up the bag of her dirty clothes it was clear that she hadn't had diarrhea at all, she'd just taken a nice solid poop in her pants. GROSS!!!!!!!
So . . . what in the world should we do here? I am completely overwhelmed by the whole thing and have no clue how to handle this. Put her back in diapers full time, tell her she can try underpants again in a week? She'll say she wants to wear underpants, but will then pee in them immediately, so I feel like we can't let her tell us if/when she's ready to move past whatever bizarre satisfaction she's getting out of all this.
Please help!!
DD1 (2.5) has been toying with potty training for what seems like ages. For months we've had a little potty in the bathroom and a potty ring, and she's been in diapers, but has had the option of using the potty if she ever wanted. She was very excited about the potty and used to request to go all the time. Right after DD2 was born, 3 months ago, DD1 suddenly became VERY interested in the potty, and announced that she wanted to wear underpants all the time, no diapers. Ok, great, right?
So we bought her a bunch of underpants, started her in them w/frequent reminders, things were going great. She was hesitant about pooping on the potty, but was great about pee. Wore underpants to school, out on errands, etc, and everything was fine. A few accidents here and there, but nothing too serious.
So fast forward to this past week. We just switched to a Montessori preschool last week from the play-based center she had been at since she was a year old. She went last week, then had a four day weekend at home (she's only going TWR). Well, this weekend was a total disaster; she pooped in her pants three times, peed (obviously intentionally) multiple times, once right after I suggested it was a good time to go to the potty (she just looked at me and let loose). Ok, so finally Sunday we asked if she would be happier just wearing diapers again. She said yes, but then kept ripping the diapers off and peeing on the floor, etc. Argh!
We sent her to school today in diapers, but her school put her back into underpants (I think there may have been some misunderstanding?) and then told me she'd had "diarrhea". Well, when I opened up the bag of her dirty clothes it was clear that she hadn't had diarrhea at all, she'd just taken a nice solid poop in her pants. GROSS!!!!!!!
So . . . what in the world should we do here? I am completely overwhelmed by the whole thing and have no clue how to handle this. Put her back in diapers full time, tell her she can try underpants again in a week? She'll say she wants to wear underpants, but will then pee in them immediately, so I feel like we can't let her tell us if/when she's ready to move past whatever bizarre satisfaction she's getting out of all this.
Please help!!