edurnemk
10-21-2012, 12:24 AM
I need some opinions on the best BR setup for our family.
Backstory in the BP: http://windsorpeak.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=3626508#post3626508
Our new apartment has 3 bedrooms, a formal living and dining room, and a spacious family room (not as big as we have now, no room for the kids' play area there, since we'll use part of it as a study/office area and DH refuses to have toys in the family room anymore). DS will be 5 yo in 3 months, he's VERY active, boisterous, messy. DD is 3 months old and still sleeping in our room, probably until she's 6 months old. She's more sensitive to noises and such than DS ever was as a baby, she wakes more easily.
So what I've planned to do is give each kid their own BR (DS gets the bigger one), and have their toys in each of their rooms (DS currently has about 90% of his in his room, only a few bigger items, art stuff and board games in the family room, but he plays a lot in there). My reasoning for this is that: there's a big age gap between them (4. years), DS is very noisy, seriously he cannot regulate the volume of his voice; DS has a lot of big boy toys now with tons of tiny pieces (a.k.a. choking hazards) so I'd rather not have them in the same room as DD's toys (I think it's easier to keep her out of DS's room than to supervise her 100% of the time in a shared playroom); I think it will be easier to keep DS out of DD's hair during nap times if she's in HER room instead of THEIR room. Also it will be a tight fit with DS's bed and nightstand, DD's crib and changing table, plus there's not enough drawers in the closet for the both of them, so I'd need to get a dresser and it won't fit in there.
Well now DH wants them to share a room, and use the 3rd bedroom as a playroom and office. I already told him that's a terrible combo, since how is he supposed to work in there when they play? He agreed with that, but the thing is he's so messy (you should see the mountains of cr@p he accumulates on his desk), so I think he wants a space with a door to keep it out of sight instead of me nagging him to clean up every time someone comes over. I think it would be a better idea to put a desk in our BR (it's a large room and has sort of a nook which would be ideal), in any case. He insists on them sharing a BR and the other room being their playroom. His latest argument is that he wants them to share for a while, so when we move to a house they will truly feel like we've expanded and they finally have their own space, and also so they'll learn to share. This coming from the man who was opposed to them sharing a room just 6 months ago :30:.
Ok so after my very long rant, tell me, how would you use each room? Am I being unreasonable? Is it a good idea for a baby and a 5 yo to share a bedroom?
Backstory in the BP: http://windsorpeak.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=3626508#post3626508
Our new apartment has 3 bedrooms, a formal living and dining room, and a spacious family room (not as big as we have now, no room for the kids' play area there, since we'll use part of it as a study/office area and DH refuses to have toys in the family room anymore). DS will be 5 yo in 3 months, he's VERY active, boisterous, messy. DD is 3 months old and still sleeping in our room, probably until she's 6 months old. She's more sensitive to noises and such than DS ever was as a baby, she wakes more easily.
So what I've planned to do is give each kid their own BR (DS gets the bigger one), and have their toys in each of their rooms (DS currently has about 90% of his in his room, only a few bigger items, art stuff and board games in the family room, but he plays a lot in there). My reasoning for this is that: there's a big age gap between them (4. years), DS is very noisy, seriously he cannot regulate the volume of his voice; DS has a lot of big boy toys now with tons of tiny pieces (a.k.a. choking hazards) so I'd rather not have them in the same room as DD's toys (I think it's easier to keep her out of DS's room than to supervise her 100% of the time in a shared playroom); I think it will be easier to keep DS out of DD's hair during nap times if she's in HER room instead of THEIR room. Also it will be a tight fit with DS's bed and nightstand, DD's crib and changing table, plus there's not enough drawers in the closet for the both of them, so I'd need to get a dresser and it won't fit in there.
Well now DH wants them to share a room, and use the 3rd bedroom as a playroom and office. I already told him that's a terrible combo, since how is he supposed to work in there when they play? He agreed with that, but the thing is he's so messy (you should see the mountains of cr@p he accumulates on his desk), so I think he wants a space with a door to keep it out of sight instead of me nagging him to clean up every time someone comes over. I think it would be a better idea to put a desk in our BR (it's a large room and has sort of a nook which would be ideal), in any case. He insists on them sharing a BR and the other room being their playroom. His latest argument is that he wants them to share for a while, so when we move to a house they will truly feel like we've expanded and they finally have their own space, and also so they'll learn to share. This coming from the man who was opposed to them sharing a room just 6 months ago :30:.
Ok so after my very long rant, tell me, how would you use each room? Am I being unreasonable? Is it a good idea for a baby and a 5 yo to share a bedroom?