Clarity
04-03-2013, 01:06 PM
We talk a lot about mean girls and how they treat our dc. But...what if the mean girl is YOUR child?
I'm a bit worried that I have a mean girl in the making. I talked to her teacher today and we both have some concerns about her social engagement and her tendancy toward "clique" behavior. Please know that my dd2 is NOT mean or unkind in nature but she has a tendency to want to play with her own set of friends and does not expand those boundaries to include other children in her class. I don't know why. She shares so voluntarily and is so kind to her big sister but she's a bit different at school. I feel like if I don't start teaching her some kindness/compassion she could easily become a future mean girl. I've talked to her about playing with others ( the teacher pointed out that telling dd2 to play with someone else is a lot like someone telling me to have lunch with a coworker with whom I am not close.)
I've been looking for some books that I can read to my 4.5yo but I can't really pinpoint something that would help me work on this. (I do have "Have you filled your bucket yet?) Any tips/suggestions/books would be wonderful.
I'm a bit worried that I have a mean girl in the making. I talked to her teacher today and we both have some concerns about her social engagement and her tendancy toward "clique" behavior. Please know that my dd2 is NOT mean or unkind in nature but she has a tendency to want to play with her own set of friends and does not expand those boundaries to include other children in her class. I don't know why. She shares so voluntarily and is so kind to her big sister but she's a bit different at school. I feel like if I don't start teaching her some kindness/compassion she could easily become a future mean girl. I've talked to her about playing with others ( the teacher pointed out that telling dd2 to play with someone else is a lot like someone telling me to have lunch with a coworker with whom I am not close.)
I've been looking for some books that I can read to my 4.5yo but I can't really pinpoint something that would help me work on this. (I do have "Have you filled your bucket yet?) Any tips/suggestions/books would be wonderful.