Myira
04-15-2013, 04:24 PM
A very trivial thing but something just keeps bothering me about it...
A friend calls me on Saturday morning and leaves a voice message asking if I'd like to join her for shopping after 2 missed calls so total 3 calls from her and message on the last call.
DH was out for the day for a conference and I was busy with the kids, did not hear my cell ring or no idea if one of them was playing with it. I see all those missed calls and message only in the evening at which point there is no way to go shopping and lazy me does not return her call right then. I forget to return her call on Sunday as well.
She meets me today and says " Hey I called you and my call was cut twice did XXX(my husband's name) cut it? Whoa I am stumped....I say no and explain how I was with the kids etc and sorry about not returning her call. But she then goes on to say she wondered if my husband cut the calls because we were having a fight or something??? Since I am too shocked to speak I say nothing.
I am a bit mad I did not say something and am tempted to go call her out on this but thought I'd get another perspective.
What is all this aspersion casting on my hubby? Is it stemming from the fact that I may have confided some issues between DH and me to her a while ago? What do you think? If you guys think she was just trying to shame me I am going to call her off. What should I do?
A friend calls me on Saturday morning and leaves a voice message asking if I'd like to join her for shopping after 2 missed calls so total 3 calls from her and message on the last call.
DH was out for the day for a conference and I was busy with the kids, did not hear my cell ring or no idea if one of them was playing with it. I see all those missed calls and message only in the evening at which point there is no way to go shopping and lazy me does not return her call right then. I forget to return her call on Sunday as well.
She meets me today and says " Hey I called you and my call was cut twice did XXX(my husband's name) cut it? Whoa I am stumped....I say no and explain how I was with the kids etc and sorry about not returning her call. But she then goes on to say she wondered if my husband cut the calls because we were having a fight or something??? Since I am too shocked to speak I say nothing.
I am a bit mad I did not say something and am tempted to go call her out on this but thought I'd get another perspective.
What is all this aspersion casting on my hubby? Is it stemming from the fact that I may have confided some issues between DH and me to her a while ago? What do you think? If you guys think she was just trying to shame me I am going to call her off. What should I do?