Gracemom
04-19-2013, 10:15 AM
My son played spring soccer with a team that included kids from his school. He loved it and has some talent for it. The team is all 5 & 6 year old boys in K. One of the players' dad coaches with assistance from other dads. Good sportsmanship is VERY important to me, and I have some major concerns about this team. I need to decide if we should stay on this team for the summer season, or look around for another team. This would be tricky, but doable.
My son loves the team and wants to continue. The coach has a sarcastic humor, which he likes. Here are my concerns:
1. The coach has a formal complaint against him from another coach for a disagreement during a game. I don't know the details. I do know our coach always complains about the other team's coaches and parents and their bad behavior.
2. The coach has a disagreement with the ref. during every game over a call. He has a temper and although he doesn't yell, he looks pissed off.
3. The coach's son is one of our best players, and makes a lot of our team's points. However, he pushes other players out of the way when they go for the ball, and even got reprimanded by the ref. for it. If I were the coach, I would not allow that behavior and would sit his butt on the bench until he stopped pushing other kids. One of those kids got hurt from the pushing.
My gut is telling me this is not the team for my son. My DH wants to give it another try for the summer season, then look for another team for the fall. What if the next team's coach is even worse? I have witnessed other coaches yelling at the boys during the games. I don't want that either. Why is it so hard to find a good coach? Neither my DH or I know much about soccer, so we don't feel like we would be good coaches. What do you think we should do?
My son loves the team and wants to continue. The coach has a sarcastic humor, which he likes. Here are my concerns:
1. The coach has a formal complaint against him from another coach for a disagreement during a game. I don't know the details. I do know our coach always complains about the other team's coaches and parents and their bad behavior.
2. The coach has a disagreement with the ref. during every game over a call. He has a temper and although he doesn't yell, he looks pissed off.
3. The coach's son is one of our best players, and makes a lot of our team's points. However, he pushes other players out of the way when they go for the ball, and even got reprimanded by the ref. for it. If I were the coach, I would not allow that behavior and would sit his butt on the bench until he stopped pushing other kids. One of those kids got hurt from the pushing.
My gut is telling me this is not the team for my son. My DH wants to give it another try for the summer season, then look for another team for the fall. What if the next team's coach is even worse? I have witnessed other coaches yelling at the boys during the games. I don't want that either. Why is it so hard to find a good coach? Neither my DH or I know much about soccer, so we don't feel like we would be good coaches. What do you think we should do?