firstbaby
04-19-2013, 05:27 PM
Granted, this whole thing is so small compared to what else is going on right now, but my feelings are hurt over something. I need some advice whether to respond or not, and if so, how.
I teach a class once a week for a few hours and there are 8 of us that teach. There is a director directing the chaos so to speak and we just wrapped up our classes until September. Six to eight weeks ago, she put a dinner on everyone's calendar as her thank you to us for teaching. No one had a conflict. Fast forward to the other night, and she found out that a couple of the other teachers have a big event the next night and it would be hard for them to make the dinner as they need to prepare. She proposed a new date and I immediately wrote back that I would be out of town that night - it has been on the calendar for weeks and I can't change it.
Last night, I got an email that said "Sorry, but you are the only one who can't make the alternate date so we are going with the alternate date. We will miss you". I am really hurt over this. I know schedules can be hard to coordinate, but the other teachers could make the dinner if they wanted to - just a lot to fit in. I physically can't be in two states at once. It just stinks to feel unimportant to the group and honestly, it was a tough go this year with teaching. Not the teaching per se, but some of the dynamics and cast of characters that go with it.
I'm torn whether to respond or not. Thoughts?
I teach a class once a week for a few hours and there are 8 of us that teach. There is a director directing the chaos so to speak and we just wrapped up our classes until September. Six to eight weeks ago, she put a dinner on everyone's calendar as her thank you to us for teaching. No one had a conflict. Fast forward to the other night, and she found out that a couple of the other teachers have a big event the next night and it would be hard for them to make the dinner as they need to prepare. She proposed a new date and I immediately wrote back that I would be out of town that night - it has been on the calendar for weeks and I can't change it.
Last night, I got an email that said "Sorry, but you are the only one who can't make the alternate date so we are going with the alternate date. We will miss you". I am really hurt over this. I know schedules can be hard to coordinate, but the other teachers could make the dinner if they wanted to - just a lot to fit in. I physically can't be in two states at once. It just stinks to feel unimportant to the group and honestly, it was a tough go this year with teaching. Not the teaching per se, but some of the dynamics and cast of characters that go with it.
I'm torn whether to respond or not. Thoughts?