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gcc2k
05-19-2013, 11:55 PM
37 weeks today and my water broke all over my parents bathroom while we were celebrating Mothers Day for my mom a week late. This was literally minutes after showing my mom my list of 8-10 things I still felt like I needed to get done. The main thing being picking out a name!

Dr said I was still only 1 cm dilated 4 hours after my water broke. I just walked the halls and stairs the last hour hoping to get things going since I really want to avoid a pit drip.


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So I guess I'm one of those rare women whose second labor is actually longer than the first. Despite my water breaking, this little boy has no interest in coming out.

Only 1 cm dilated when I got to the hospital around 9pm last night (when my water broke at 6:30) so I walked the halls and did stairs to try to get things going. But at midnight, nada. Still 1 cm and they put me on pitocin. At 630am, after pretty much lying in discomfort in the hospital bed all night long, I had progressed to 2 whole cm! Grrrrrr. They gave me until 9am and since I hadn't felt much significant change, I walked the halls again for another hour or so before they hook me back up to a new pit drip. Now I secretly wonder if there really is any pitocin in that IV bag. :)

I really really want to avoid a c-section. But I know that doctors really like to get babies out within 24 hours of your water breaking to avoid infection. So I'm asking all of you for P&PT that my cervix will start dilating!

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So there is no baby yet, but he IS coming.

We are the topic of conversation on the maternity ward today, and this little boy has managed to have everyone scratching their heads.

By mid afternoon I had been on pitocin for nearly 18 hours and had only progressed to 2-3 cm. At that point the doctors and nurses started wondering if my wAter had actually broken. For a few hours I thought I was THAT woman who peed herself, thought her water broke, then spent nearly 24 hours on a pit drip for no good reason. DH and I were pretty sure we were going home with a baby still in utero since I'm only 37 weeks. But in the late afternoon my doc, the on-call doc, my nurse, and the internal fetal medical specialist doc gathered round for an ultrasound to determine that, indeed, there was very little fluid around the baby. I wasn't going crazy!

Apparently I hadn't been leaking any additional fluid for ruptured bags which led them to wonder. Coupled with some miscommunication between the day/night nurses and docs, and they were ready to send us home. But the doc said that I must have had a "high leak". They explained it like a full covered cup tipping and leaking from the top, then righting itself and not causing anymore leaks. So DH and I got an hour break to eat (yay!) and shower. At 6pm they started me back on the monitors and pit drip while I was 3cm, and broke the fore bag to cause more leaking and hopefully get this show on the road.

All that to say is the past 24 hours have been tiring, uncomfortable, and not very productive, but we are hoping to get things revved up. And because DS2 is still looking great on the monitors, they are not worried about a c-section anytime soon.

Thanks for all the encouragement and advice!

jennilynn
05-20-2013, 12:05 AM
Sending good birthing vibes your way! Everything on the list can wait :)

abh5e8
05-20-2013, 12:06 AM
yay....look forward to meeting your new LO soon! (and as i'm also 37 weeks, i hear ya on the yet long list of things to do). but....it will all get done in time. prayers for a speedy and joyful birth!

BigDog
05-20-2013, 12:17 AM
Yay! Fingers crossed for an easy delivery!

I'm 39 weeks, 3cm, 80%, and still no name either!

sarahsthreads
05-20-2013, 12:22 AM
DD2 didn't have a name until a good 12 hours after she was born, so don't worry - sometimes you need to meet your little one before you're sure which name fits best!

Hope everything is quick and easy and you're holding your little guy very soon!

Sarah :)

georgiegirl
05-20-2013, 07:19 AM
Very exciting! I know I won't be ready until 40 weeks.

karstmama
05-20-2013, 07:30 AM
congratulations! give some of the list to all those asking how they can help.

hellokitty
05-20-2013, 07:36 AM
Good luck! All you really need is some dipes, a few outfits and you are ready to go!

SnuggleBuggles
05-20-2013, 08:00 AM
Exciting!!!

boogiemomz
05-20-2013, 08:07 AM
Congrats! Can't wait to hear good news! :bighand:

waitingforgrace
05-20-2013, 08:10 AM
Exciting! Hope you have a safe and speedy delivery

Still-in-Shock
05-20-2013, 08:17 AM
As long as you have a car seat to take the baby home from the hospital, everything else can wait. And even then, the hospital would give you one!

I know lots of people who said they couldn't name the baby until they met him/her. Or that once they met the baby, they changed their mind about a name. So don't worry, EVERYTHING will fall into place.

boogiemomz
05-20-2013, 10:37 AM
Thanks for the update, go cervix go!! :cheerleader1: Hope things start moving along soon!!

larig
05-20-2013, 10:39 AM
big pts for you!

MamaMolly
05-20-2013, 11:38 AM
P&PT for a healthy birth soon! :applause: So excited for you!!

Melaine
05-20-2013, 11:47 AM
Oooh hope things get moving soon. But either way, so exciting that you'll be meeting him so soon! P&PTs!

Indianamom2
05-20-2013, 11:50 AM
Very exciting....and I was one whose second labor was longer as well. In fact, it sounds a lot like yours. But I didn't end up with a c-section, if that gives you hope. Just a very long uncomfy induction. Hope all goes well and quickly from here on out.

mommylamb
05-20-2013, 12:23 PM
I really hope you start dilating soon! Or better yet, already are as I type this.

For me, pitocin did nothing when they induced me. But when the OB broke my water, it changed everything. Obviously, it's a different story for you. Fingers crossed.

BDKmom
05-20-2013, 12:55 PM
Sending mojo your way that things get moving soon!

georgiegirl
05-20-2013, 01:00 PM
Hope you start progressing and your little guy makes an appearance soon,

SnuggleBuggles
05-20-2013, 01:10 PM
Decline exams to reduce infection rate, get out of bed, sit on a ball, nipple stim (lots!!!)! Good luck!!!

essnce629
05-20-2013, 01:49 PM
Definitely do some nipple/breast stimulation to get things moving. You can try these acupressure points as well to help speed things up. Here's a good video on the exact spots:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wnEcLSHTI0s

TwoBees
05-20-2013, 08:49 PM
Good luck, and I hope things move along quickly!

hillview
05-20-2013, 08:51 PM
Good luck, and I hope things move along quickly!
:yeahthat::thumbsup:

Mommy_Mea
05-20-2013, 09:41 PM
I had a high leak with ds1, and it wasn't discovered until nearly 30 hours later and a lot of pictocin :-( i was 8 cm, they discovered the bag intact and broke it. Progressed quickly from there :-) I hope you are close to meeting your little one!

Nemesia
05-20-2013, 10:23 PM
Just read your 3rd update... how exciting! You'll be meeting him soon!

boogiemomz
05-21-2013, 06:43 AM
OMG, that happened to me with DD! I went in one night and they diagnosed me with ruptured membranes so I was admitted, labored all night and progressed NOT AT ALL, and they had to go back in and break the fore bag. You are the only other person I've ever heard of that happening to! SO FRUSTRATING! So sorry it has been such a looong road for you so far, hopefully he will show up soon. Keep hanging in there mama, watching for your update!! :bighand:

oneontheway
05-21-2013, 07:53 AM
Good luck for a safe and speedy delivery! Hope your little one is in your arms :)