crl
06-02-2013, 02:42 AM
Dd, turned three in April, showed a lot of interest in using the potty earlier this year so we started potty training. At first she seemed to be doing well, quick progress, interested, very motivated by m&ms. We were down to about one pee accident a week, always in the bathroom like she just didn't quite make it in time.
Then, she had gone in a fruit strike and seemed potentially constipated to me. Her Ped said her abdomen didn't feel backed up but gave me free reign with miralax if I thought it was needed.
Then she started having more and more pee accidents. I started giving miralax. She also complained once that it hurt to pee. I took her back to the Ped who ruled out a UTI.
She continues to have multiple pee accidents a day. She has a hissy fit when I ask her to go potty, frequently even if I offer a bribe. But if I let her go on her own schedule she pees all over the bathroom floor a lot more often than not. Today she had peed on the floor twice by ten am. I was so frustrated I just put her back in diapers.
When I took her post nap diaper off, it was dry so I said do you want to go potty before I put a clean diaper on? She said yes, ran to the bathroom bare bottomed and peed all over the floor.
I think this is a behavioral choice she is making at this point. I am not sure why. I have not made a big deal about the accidents, though I do remind her each time that pee goes in the potty. I tried having her clean it up, but she actually enjoys that. (Yuck!). I tried offering m&ms again for peeling in the potty. Didn't help.
So where do I go from here? Stay with diapers for a while and try again later? Tell her only kids who pee in the potty get wear princess skirts and dresses and change her into pants the first time she pees on the floor? Offer some other reward (not sure what, she doesn't have much currency that I have found and doesn't seem to get delayed rewards)? Something else?
I am at a loss and would appreciate any thoughts.
Catherine
Then, she had gone in a fruit strike and seemed potentially constipated to me. Her Ped said her abdomen didn't feel backed up but gave me free reign with miralax if I thought it was needed.
Then she started having more and more pee accidents. I started giving miralax. She also complained once that it hurt to pee. I took her back to the Ped who ruled out a UTI.
She continues to have multiple pee accidents a day. She has a hissy fit when I ask her to go potty, frequently even if I offer a bribe. But if I let her go on her own schedule she pees all over the bathroom floor a lot more often than not. Today she had peed on the floor twice by ten am. I was so frustrated I just put her back in diapers.
When I took her post nap diaper off, it was dry so I said do you want to go potty before I put a clean diaper on? She said yes, ran to the bathroom bare bottomed and peed all over the floor.
I think this is a behavioral choice she is making at this point. I am not sure why. I have not made a big deal about the accidents, though I do remind her each time that pee goes in the potty. I tried having her clean it up, but she actually enjoys that. (Yuck!). I tried offering m&ms again for peeling in the potty. Didn't help.
So where do I go from here? Stay with diapers for a while and try again later? Tell her only kids who pee in the potty get wear princess skirts and dresses and change her into pants the first time she pees on the floor? Offer some other reward (not sure what, she doesn't have much currency that I have found and doesn't seem to get delayed rewards)? Something else?
I am at a loss and would appreciate any thoughts.
Catherine