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Giantbear
08-14-2013, 11:34 PM
How about, before volunteering to baby sit someone else's kid, you spend some alone time with your own child. Other than daycare pickup, you have not been alone with our daughter since mid april other than the 45 minutes Saturday after she and i got back from the zoo. You know, when you texted me at the butcher asking when i am coming home 30 minutes after i left. Tonight at bedtime, after you left the room, after all, you had put in 10 minutes, our daughter told me 'I just wants to be with you (meaning me)'. But i am sure that is my fault.
DietCokeLover
08-14-2013, 11:38 PM
Oh GB, I am so sorry.
crl
08-14-2013, 11:45 PM
I am so sorry.

Catherine
Staraglimmer
08-14-2013, 11:48 PM
:(. I'm sorry. :hugs:
sidmand
08-14-2013, 11:49 PM
:(

Sorry.
ett
08-15-2013, 12:04 AM
I'm so sorry.
Fairy
08-15-2013, 12:15 AM
I'm so sorry, GB. I respect you so much as a parent.
elektra
08-15-2013, 12:32 AM
I am shocked that she would even agree to it! And therefore I can see how her saying yes to someone else's kid really stings. She sucks GB. :( I know it may not be her fault and she is ill and all, but I am sorry, she just really seems to suck.
Still-in-Shock
08-15-2013, 07:20 AM
It must hurt that she doesn't get it. I'm so glad your daughter has YOU.
TwinFoxes
08-15-2013, 08:22 AM
:yeahthat: To all of the above.
lizzywednesday
08-15-2013, 08:28 AM
I am shocked that she would even agree to it! And therefore I can see how her saying yes to someone else's kid really stings. She sucks GB. :( I know it may not be her fault and she is ill and all, but I am sorry, she just really seems to suck.

:yeahthat:

Lotta hugs your way, GB.
TwoBees
08-15-2013, 08:57 AM
Oh, GB, I'm so sorry. *hugs*
hillview
08-15-2013, 09:13 AM
It must hurt that she doesn't get it. I'm so glad your daughter has YOU.

that stinks. You are so so great.
BabyBearsMom
08-15-2013, 10:02 AM
I'm so sorry GB. Hugs!
Sweetum
08-15-2013, 01:06 PM
sorry to hear that. hugs...
BunnyBee
08-15-2013, 01:27 PM
WTH? Yeah, that sucks! I'm sorry. :(
Ceepa
08-15-2013, 01:52 PM
Wow. So glad your daughter has you, GB.
StantonHyde
08-15-2013, 02:47 PM
Is this because she can be seen as awesome by some other adult? Vs. being seen as a mom by her own daughter?? So sorry.
Giantbear
08-15-2013, 02:48 PM
what other people think is very important to her. She is a classic narcissist.
boogiemomz
08-15-2013, 04:44 PM
So sorry, Gbear. You are a helluva daddy. But it stinks to be doing it alone without the support of your partner. ((hugs))
Mopey
08-15-2013, 09:26 PM
Another :yeahthat: to everything written. I get the best vibes from you GB, and I am truly, truly sorry that this is the situation you've been dealing with for so long. We're always here. :22:
lkoala
08-16-2013, 12:02 AM
what other people think is very important to her. She is a classic narcissist.

Then the beautiful little child she brought into this world should reign utmost in importance. It is sad she doesn't realize what an honor it is being a parent. Regardless, your daughter is blessed to have you.
pinkmomagain
08-16-2013, 06:59 AM
what other people think is very important to her. She is a classic narcissist.

Ugh. You are a saint.
StantonHyde
08-16-2013, 04:12 PM
I hear you GB--my Dad always found time and money to buy thoughtful Christmas presents for his friends but never for my mother. And he never bought us a single present--ever. Yes, he paid for college etc. But for the life of him, he could not buy gifts for his own family. ... Because then he wouldn't have all that awesome self-aggrandizement!
ladysoapmaker
08-17-2013, 09:09 AM
*Hugs* I'm sorry to hear that GB.

Jen
DietCokeLover
08-17-2013, 09:16 AM
what other people think is very important to her. She is a classic narcissist.

This makes me wish she would log on here for a day. I'm sure there are many of us on here who would love to share some thoughts on how we see her.

Hang in there GB, you have the undying affection and admiration of a precious little girl and that is worth millions.