mikeys_mom
10-24-2013, 09:41 AM
BIL, SIL and their 4 kids are living overseas for the year. It might become permanent or they might move back here this summer. BIL's job is still based here so he's back and forth about once a month. They own a house here and are renting it out for the year. It's like their are neither-here-nor-there. I understand it's not easy for them but DH and I are not their property managers and personal assistants! This was not a forced move. It was voluntary on their part.
They have been gone a little over two months and the constant requests for "assistance" are never-ending. First, there is all the various "things" we are storing for them - extra set of tires, hockey bags, golf clubs, etc... Like I need their stuff on top of my own stuff I'm constantly trying to keep neat. Then, there are the requests to pick up things to send back with BIL. Then the messages - return our cable modem because we just got charged for it, now return our home phone modem because I didn't have a chance last time I was in, etc...
This week has been the kicker. Got an email from SIL asking if we can store her deep freezer because tenants don't want it anymore and their storage unit is full. She suggested we can store her tires on top of it. Umm, ya...no... We've got a ton of stuff in our garage and need to be able to squeeze both cars in during the winter when it snows, otherwise we are stuck shoveling them off daily. There is no room for a deep freezer, even with tires on top of it. I discussed it with DH and while we *could* fit it somewhere in the basement, it will be in the way and I'm sure that we will have to shlep it here. When I told DH about SIL's request he rolled his eyes and said that BIL (his brother) asked him to go to court for him today to fight a ticket (parking, speeding - don't remember). There is a specific appointment time for the court and DH has a work meeting at that time so BIL said - just go afterwards. Seriously?!?!? As if DH's time is meaningless and he should just go and try to figure this out for BIL. Just pay the darn ticket and be done with it. :32:
I told DH not to go. Not sure what he'll end up doing.
Truth is, BIL and SIL are nice and sweet (well, SIL is sweet :)) and we get along with them. Kids are close with ours. We complain about MIL together, etc...It's just gone a bit too far now.
They have been gone a little over two months and the constant requests for "assistance" are never-ending. First, there is all the various "things" we are storing for them - extra set of tires, hockey bags, golf clubs, etc... Like I need their stuff on top of my own stuff I'm constantly trying to keep neat. Then, there are the requests to pick up things to send back with BIL. Then the messages - return our cable modem because we just got charged for it, now return our home phone modem because I didn't have a chance last time I was in, etc...
This week has been the kicker. Got an email from SIL asking if we can store her deep freezer because tenants don't want it anymore and their storage unit is full. She suggested we can store her tires on top of it. Umm, ya...no... We've got a ton of stuff in our garage and need to be able to squeeze both cars in during the winter when it snows, otherwise we are stuck shoveling them off daily. There is no room for a deep freezer, even with tires on top of it. I discussed it with DH and while we *could* fit it somewhere in the basement, it will be in the way and I'm sure that we will have to shlep it here. When I told DH about SIL's request he rolled his eyes and said that BIL (his brother) asked him to go to court for him today to fight a ticket (parking, speeding - don't remember). There is a specific appointment time for the court and DH has a work meeting at that time so BIL said - just go afterwards. Seriously?!?!? As if DH's time is meaningless and he should just go and try to figure this out for BIL. Just pay the darn ticket and be done with it. :32:
I told DH not to go. Not sure what he'll end up doing.
Truth is, BIL and SIL are nice and sweet (well, SIL is sweet :)) and we get along with them. Kids are close with ours. We complain about MIL together, etc...It's just gone a bit too far now.