cleo27
11-16-2013, 06:37 PM
Hello,
I hesitate to post this, but I'm feeling somewhat frustrated lately. DD is 9 years old and an only child. She is not good at self entertaining at all. I am a SAHM, and whenever she is home, with no planned activities or friend over to play, she is very persistent waiting me to play with her (or DH, if I am not home - seldom!). She does not like to read independently, play by herself, even do crafts on her own. She was really into the Rainbow Loom for about a week, but now doesn't want to do it unless I pull up stuff on YouTube and sit with her. She wants me to play dolls, Lego, crafts, etc.
I love her so much, but I feel guilty if I try to do something on my own, like read, sew or even clean, because she is constantly asking me to do stuff. She will usually end up watching Spongebob or rarely playing Nintendo. (Im so sick of Spongebob!). She is involved in at least one sport a season, Girl Scouts, swim lessons, many camps over the summer. I just don't know what to do.
I love her very much, but frankly I dread days off school and weekends, because I feel like I never get a break. I'm considering pushing her to do a travel sport to keep her busier and out of the house more.
Thanks for reading. Maybe I should have put this in the Bitching Post, but looking for suggestions on what is reasonable.
I hesitate to post this, but I'm feeling somewhat frustrated lately. DD is 9 years old and an only child. She is not good at self entertaining at all. I am a SAHM, and whenever she is home, with no planned activities or friend over to play, she is very persistent waiting me to play with her (or DH, if I am not home - seldom!). She does not like to read independently, play by herself, even do crafts on her own. She was really into the Rainbow Loom for about a week, but now doesn't want to do it unless I pull up stuff on YouTube and sit with her. She wants me to play dolls, Lego, crafts, etc.
I love her so much, but I feel guilty if I try to do something on my own, like read, sew or even clean, because she is constantly asking me to do stuff. She will usually end up watching Spongebob or rarely playing Nintendo. (Im so sick of Spongebob!). She is involved in at least one sport a season, Girl Scouts, swim lessons, many camps over the summer. I just don't know what to do.
I love her very much, but frankly I dread days off school and weekends, because I feel like I never get a break. I'm considering pushing her to do a travel sport to keep her busier and out of the house more.
Thanks for reading. Maybe I should have put this in the Bitching Post, but looking for suggestions on what is reasonable.