Need help

[C&C's mom]

My dd will potty at preschool but not at home. She screams bloody murder if I put her on the potty at home. I have tried rewards etc. She demand her diaper back on. When I leave her in panties she has accidents. I just recently had to buy a new couch because of it. She is 3.5 yrs old and I know she can do it. Please help!

[hillview]

Have you done rewards? Set a timer? For a while we had a timer set for every 15 mins. go to potty. get an M&M. At this age it is easy to forget to go potty esp if watching TV or playing with a toy. I'd avoid a power struggle and see if something (reward) gets her interested at home. New panties she picks out? good luck!