Help accessorize me for a wedding

[cookie.rn]

Seriously fashion impaired here. My DH and I are attending a a Boston area wedding next weekend and I need jewelry and shoe help.
I found this dress

http://m.macys.com/shop/product/calvin-klein-sleeveless-shutter-pleat-dress?ID=1144290&PartnerID=LINKSHARE&cm_mmc=LINKSHARE-_-4-_-34-_-MP434&LinkshareID=q5QZHUbCIj8-k9vCTzgKHAfyIrs4HY1leQ

But I'm lost when it comes to shoes and accessories. Silver, nude, black? What's a (late 30's) girl to do?

[mikala]

I'm a bit fashion impaired myself so take with a grain of salt but I'd do sparkly drop earrings, a bracelet and either nude or metallic peep toes or sandals. I'm curious to hear what others suggest!