Official diagnosis -- sad

[hillview]

We got an official NLD/NLVD (non verbal learning disability) diagnosis for DS2 today. I knew he was "at risk" and really after a bunch of research felt that was the best fit for him ... that said I am still sad. It is a long road.

[Kindra178]

I am very sorry. At least with the proper diagnosis, schools will have a better sense of direction.

[pastrygirl]

I'm sorry. Hopefully this helps with services, though...

[petesgirl]

Aww, big hugs!! There is absolutely nothing in this world harder than watching helplessly while our children struggle. I hope you are able to find services and exceptional people to help you both make the best of this!

[Indianamom2]

I'm sorry. I know how much it stinks, even when you expect it and know it's true. It's just hard.:hug:

[DualvansMommy]

Even though you suspected/expected it for long time. It's ok to still grieve for a bit. We already know what a great mom you are just from pushing for the testing, coordinating the testings and endless meetings! At least you know what to do in terms of game plan for DS2. Be kind to yourself....hugs.


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[hellokitty]

I'm sorry, I think this is always hard, even if you suspected it. I hope that he can get the services that he needs, now that he has an official diagnosis.

[KpbS]

Big hugs to you, hillview. :hug: :hug: :hug:

[citymama]

Big hugs to you.

[citymama]

Big hugs to you.

[JustMe]

Hugs. Diagnosis for me was one of the few times it truly sucked to be right.

[baymom]

I'm very sorry. Big hugs, Hillview.

[elektra]

Hugs....

[arivecchi]

I'm sorry. :( If anyone can handle adversity, it is you though. Stay strong. Thinking of you.

[JCat]

So sorry. Yes, even when you expect it it's still very hard!

[gatorsmom]

I'm so sorry. But he is so lucky to have a strong mom like you.

My DS3 who is your son's age, is starting advanced testing this week for learning or development disorders. I understand what you are going through.

[Pepper]

As everyone else has said - big hugs. And a big sigh, too. Can't something be easy, for once? Right? :hug:

[elephantmeg]

I'm so sorry. Those official diagnosis are hard. Hugs to you!

[SnuggleBuggles]

I remember being sad when ds1 got a dx. :hug:

[Sweetum]

((hugs))
Do give yourself time to grieve.
My experience was that it allowed me to focus completely on what needs to happen from then on, because until then every "red flag" would be stressful. I now describe it as feeling like worst was over. Hang in there, Mom..

[ett]

I'm so sorry. It's hard even when you're expecting it.

[sste]

Sorry so late to this . . . crazy busy at work/home these days.

When I went through this I would tell myself (over and over), "This is the beginning point, not the end of the story." I know it sucks not to know the end of the story but let's face it no one does, I think parents of more typical kids are sometimes the most surprised of all. I do think with the resources, interventions, support etc your son has had and continues to have he is very likely going to exceed expectations. :)

[Gena]

Now that you've had some time to process it, I hope you are feeling better about the diagnosis. Personally, I found having an official diagnosis to be a great relief, because it opened new doors for services and supports and it provided us with a general roadmap of what to do next.

I hope that along with the official diagnosis you got a detailed report. Make sure that you share any new information with the school and update the IEP or 504 plan accordingly.

Hugs!