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melrose7
11-14-2018, 12:08 PM
DH and I are going to the wedding of the family I nannied 11 years for. The parents divorced after about 18 yrs of marriage. It was a very civilized separation. The mom got remarried a year ago and now the dad is getting remarried next month. Money isn’t an issue for any of them so I was glad they listed on their invitation No Gifts Please. Should I at least bring a card? Will they even have a card box?

SnuggleBuggles
11-14-2018, 12:09 PM
Yes, bring a card. You won't be the only one bringing a card. :)

Snow mom
11-14-2018, 12:11 PM
I think bringing a card is fine (and even good.) I would respect their no gifts and not include a check or cash in the card.

Zansu
11-14-2018, 03:18 PM
I always make a donation to a relevant charity in honor of the event.

lil_acorn
11-15-2018, 10:20 AM
we brought a card and donated to their child's fundraiser for a school trip (daughter has posted on it recently).