Ok, DS is 6 on Saturday. I need to know if his behavior is typical of his age or something else. At home he is wild pretty much all the time. What I mean by wild is that he is a sensory seeker. We have plenty of ways he can "work out"--fitness trampoline, we allow couch crashing, jump rope tug of war etc.... DS is just always moving and can't seem to focus long enough to do things like get dressed in the morning. At his parent teacher conference I flat out asked if they thought DS had ADHD. They looked at me like I had 2 heads (this is a school for kids who are "quirky"--they have kids with spd and other issues such as issues with pragmatic language, motor planning issues, social issues--no one there has a asd or asperger's diagnosis--just as background).
The teachers said DS sits and listens and does not have to be told often to stay on task etc... However, at home he is a nightmare. I know that kids will often let loose at home b/c after a day at school (DS's school day is 3 hours for transitional K). DS is like this afterschool, in the mornings, all weekend long. Is this normal for a 6 yr old? I feel that part is DS's spd issues. I also feel like, even though the teachers said no, that we are probably looking at ADHD (however, I don't know enough to know what else it could be).
Anyone gone through this? Any insight is appreciated.