Both DD and DS were born overseas, and I only had a shower for DD, hosted by my friends. My family (other than my mother and one aunt) could not attend. Since DC#3 will be born stateside, my aunts are hosting a baby party with punch & cake at one of their homes, the day after our big annual family reunion in July. I told my mother that we don't need anymore stuff, so it's not really a "shower" so much as it will be simply a celebratory gathering for family. I just really wanted to get together with my aunts & cousins etc because we didn't get to do that for DD or DS.