Update
I just thought I would update you guys since you all spend to much time and effort listening and advising me
I resigned today. I am still not sure if they are going to pull my teaching certificate - but I knew all along that was a possibility so while it totally stinks, I can accept it if that is what happens.
I just finally came to the point where nothing was worth being this miserable over. I dont' have a solid plan B, but I just didnt want to put off the resignation any longer. I was starting to become physically ill each night just dreading the next day.
And I am still a little miserable - b/c I know I let people down (esp the kids) and might have put my career in jeopardy, but I am a little LESS miserable with all of that on my shoulders than staying in a job I just couldnt stand any longer.
I still haven't told my co-teacher or the center director - I think they will be the most upset. I have 9 days left and just don't feel in any huge rush to disappoint them or make my last 9 days even worse (by telling them and they resent me). They dont have any say or responsibility in who replaces me (the school district does) so its' just a matter of letting them know, not a time crunch thing for them. I know the director and the district will want to let the parents know, but I assume they won't tell them until the last day or so anyway....
It really stinks all around, but in the long run, I know I did the right thing. I was at peace once I made the decision, but it's hard getting through this part of it all (letting everyone know, knowing I am burdening them)
Thanks again for your support
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Ronda
Mommy to DD 1/03 and DS 4/04
"Before you criticize someone, walk a mile in their shoes......that way you are a mile away and you have their shoes" - unknown