RE: Should all future co-ops be moved to Yahoo??
I really hope I don't open any can of worms here. But, here are some things to consider. I don't want to debate. I just wanted to offer something to think about.
I think that moving co-ops to a yahoo group is a possible solution to the behaviour recently demonstrated and should seriously be considered. Here's why.
I think this board is largely dedicated to community-building. This is a strong network of parents who belong and participate in a community where trust, support, aid, and information are shared with our other community members. While BBB is not any sort of "exclusive club," but a very public space where ANYBODY can enter and either observe or join the goings-on, the strength of the community depends on participation and the building of social capital. "Community" depends on this notion of civic-mindedness and trust. That trust has now been breached. Perhaps this problem has been resolved, but how do we know for sure?
Yes, it might be unfair to those who mostly lurk but do participate occasionally and consider yourself a part of this community too. I know that when I lurked I did feel a part of this community even though I didn't partake in it actively. But, the question to consider is whether those who have built and help maintain this community ought to benefit from the effort of particular co-ops, etc. especially participants have worked hard to organize them. A community and social capital cannot sustain itself, or even exist, with a population of lurkers.
I am not saying that I absolutely think that moving co-ops to a private yahoo group is the only alternative. But, I think it is worth considering by those who organize the co-ops. If there is communication with a store or company about a co-op that is understood as a "private" co-op then I think, Yes, the active community members perhaps ought to be able to benefit. But, if the company or store doesn't care whether everyone and their proverbial brother be able to purchase at the discount, then fine, keep the information open to all.
I was a lurker and I recall that I so badly wanted to participate in the diaper swap. All those wonderful diapers that people were selling at decent prices, wow! I finally mustered enough courage to post my first post. Good golly how I scrutinized it. I never thought I would have enough posts to join that diaper swap. But, I began to really connect myself here, contribute to the community, build trust and networks, etc. Now? I have more than enough posts.
Anyway, this is getting long and I don't want this to become a treastise on Civic Culture. But, if you lurk and want to benefit even more in the commmunity, let us all benefit from all the things that you can offer too.
Juliet, mama to DS 10/03 & DS 11/06