RE: Gate attachment that wraps around banister?
You can find these at BRU in the baby gate aisle. We looked at them a few weeks ago (one was open on the shelf), and my husband wasn't too impressed with the quality or the price. He was able to make the same thing for less $$ and better material without too much trouble.
Sarah
Sarah
Mom to Alex (2002) and Catherine (2003)
"The challenge of parenting isn't shaping your kids to be what you want, it's shaping yourself to be what your kids need." - Wellyes