OK I know that when I was a bride I didn't know anything about being a Mom. My SIL brought my 4 month old nephew to mine and I didn't complain and I was very accomodating. At least I think I was.
So I'm in my college roommate's wedding 4th of July wedding in Atlanta. I tried to get out of it last winter when she A) Didn't have a definitive date B) Hadn't picked out a dress yet (I was 5 months preggers at the time). I told her I couldn't afford it with the baby and me staying at home (I figured that she'd understand b/c she backed out of my wedding due to wedding costs and I had NO problem with that). So she said that she really wanted me in the wedding and would let me stay at her house and pay for the dress, and I agreed. Well now I have to come up with a hotel. Hotels are not cheap in Atlanta! This sucks all the way around.
The dress is huge on me. I might as well have bought it with all the alteration costs. It's a halter top so my whole top will be exposed if we do nurse at the reception (I'm bringing my pashmina shawl with me).
We have to drive 6 hours with a nursing baby and then she wants me to hang out w/ her in the hair salon the day of her wedding. I tried to explain to her very nicely that if I was to stay all day away from the baby that my boobs would explode and that I would like to spend all morning with my family so that I could concentrate on her during her wedding and not have to worry about pictures, etc.
When I said yes that I'd be in her wedding, Martie wasn't even a twinkle in my eye and I was fully employed. Whhhyyy did I say yes. Why can't she be more female friendly have have other girlfriends. Why didn't she just elope.
ARRRGH. Thanks for letting me vent. Now to break the bad news to DH.
Sonia
Proud Mommy to Martie 4/6/03
http://www.mcdyer.com/MartieSurasky.htm