RE: Teething troubles
Sister, I'm with you! I'm starting to panic, actually. Abby took seven months to cut her first two teeth, and is MISERABLE these days although no others have come in. Her cold and ear infection are seeming better, but her mouth hurts. She is refusing to eat and isn't sleeping much at all. She wakes every hour or so, cries and moans in her sleep, holds her mouth and says, "Uh oh." On our ped's advice, we gave her a double dose of Motrin, but we still had a rotten night. I'm getting scared. How long can a child go without eating or sleeping? Also, I'm sick that there's such a double standard around pain. Walk into any hospital, and there will be signs everywhere saying that patients have the right to assessment and treatment of their pain. But that's adult patients, I guess. Not true for babies. She's in enough pain to not meet her most basic survival needs, and Motrin is all we have to work with. (It's not working.) There's this attitude like, "Well, it's only teething, and teething is hard, they just have to tough it out." Uh. No adult would stand for pain that made them this miserable. I'm not heavily into drugging my child, but when I see her unable to eat or sleep for ten days at a time, I think a little something isn't a bad idea. It's one thing if she's fussy, but quite another if she can't tolerate food or rest. I'm so upset, partly because I think this could go on for a while. Her gums are red, but they looked like that for weeks and weeks before her first teeth broke through. :(
-Rachel
Mom to Abigail Rose
5/18/02
Rachel
Mama to Abby (5) and Ethan (2)
When you know better, you do better.
-Maya Angelou