or just a good old-fashioned bitch?!?
Hello everyone!
I come again seeking advice. First, a little background.
I have a cousin "Meg", who is in her early thirties, divorced, about to be remarried, and desparate for a child. About a year ago, my cousin and his wife announced that they were expecting and her reply was, "I wanted to have the first great-grandchild!" At Christmas, my husband and I told family that we were expecting, and before we arrived at my grandmother's house for Christmas dinner, my mom told "Meg" that I was pregnant. Her reply...."That's not fair." She didn't look at me or say congratulations or go to hell or anything.
I invited her to a shower, to which she did not attend or send acknowledgements. I sent a birth announcement to her, to which she did not send her acknowledgements. No card, no phone call, no gift (I should mention that she is financially able to send at least a card..really much more.)
So now I'm invited to a bridal shower for Meg. The gracious part of me knows that I should do her better than she's done me and send a gift. The bitch in me knows that she hasn't acknowledged Ellen in any way and I'll be damned if I do anything for her until she does.
What do you think? What would you do?
Thanks!
-Shannon
Mom to Ellen
7/23/2003