My (thankfully) ex-roommate used to slam the microwave door all the time - the door to MY microwave no less - and it drove me f'ing crazy. I had a hard time telling him that I didn't want him to SLAM the door shut, especially because there were so many other things he did that drove me crazy, I didn't even know where to start (e.g. sneaking into my room without me knowing [he was a guy roommate, me a girl who left underwear & bra's out, you get the picture], using my computer in my room and lying about it, breaking my nightstand...I could go on and on). Anyway, I TOTALLY get the microwave thing!
Nancy
Mom to Braeden 6.5.03