so, a good friend of mine sent me a gift for DS's recent b'day. when we received it, i thought there was no card. a further inspection revealed two cards stuck inside the box the toy was attached to - BOTH made out to my friend's DD for her b'day!
i've known this woman since 9th grade (let's just say that's over 15 years now) and her DD and my DS were born on the same day, and i sent her a cute outfit and a couple books because i thought it was fun shopping for a girl for once! i was not expecting a gift back and would not have thought anything of it if we had not received anything except their thanks. however, now that i know we've received a re-gifted toy, i'm miffed!
what would you do? would you call her on it or just send a thank you note or do nothing or what?
i sent a thank you note with a cute pic of DS in it and did not mention the fact that i found the cards. but it still leaves a bad taste in my mouth!
Update: i just wanted to thank everyone who's responded so far and say i agree with those who suggested not mentioning it. i would not put her on the spot like that, but i guess my main concern is that the way it was presented, with the cards for her DD still included and seemingly very little thought put into it by her, was tacky. i, too, have regifted, but am always careful to make sure there is no card or other "give-away" info that my receiver might take offense to. this woman and i have other historical issues, and i guess i thought we were beyond that - and we probably are, but i guess i would've expected more care. btw, the gift is a leap frog alphabet pal (http://www.leapfrogstore.com/index.c...il&catalogID=1), and it is pretty cute.
amy
proud momma to DS
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