Riordan hasn't let us just hold her in our arms since she was about 8 weeks old. Will she ever?? It's making me just a wee bit sad. I mean, I'm glad that she's so interested in the world around her, but sheesh...every SINGLE second with the parents-as-jungle-gym thing?
Not only is it exhausting physically, but we'd kinda like to look into her eyes for more than a nanosecond, enjoy a moment of calm together, that kind of thing. (She's calm and contemplative in the STROLLER, for Pete's sake - why not when we hold her?)
She makes plenty of eye contact when she's not in our arms, she initiates contact and interaction, so we're not worried about it. I just wish that sometimes she'd just let me cuddle her a little bit. She's like a cat that hates to be picked up. :( (And she's the same way in the sling...she loves the sling, but her version of the hip-carry is to be completely horizontal, trying to fly toward the ground...)
She will outgrow this, right? Or were those 8 weeks all we'll ever have?
Thanks for listening,
Jude