While I have not BTDT, I think feeling jealous is totally normal. Don't beat yourself up for it. You can't control how you feel, you can only control how you act. I know it must hurt, but smile and be happy for people. Just keep trying and I'm sure you'll be posting an announcement soon!
And I know this won't really make you feel better, but some of us, who were surprised by #2's impatience to get here, are a little envious of those of you who get to plan when your next one comes. I'm due at Christmas and my two will be 17 months apart, so I feel overwhelmed sometimes. I guess the grass is always greener on the other side. ;)
Good luck!
Jenn
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While I have not BTDT, I think feeling jealous is totally normal. Don't beat yourself up for it. You can't control how you feel, you can only control how you act. I know it must hurt, but smile and be happy for people. Just keep trying and I'm sure you'll be posting an announcement soon!
And I know this won't really make you feel better, but some of us, who were surprised by #2's impatience to get here, are a little envious of those of you who get to plan when your next one comes. I'm due at Christmas and my two will be 17 months apart, so I feel overwhelmed sometimes. I guess the grass is always greener on the other side. ;)
Good luck!
Jenn
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RE: Is it wrong to be jealous when you hear others are pregnant?
While I have not BTDT, I think feeling jealous is totally normal. Don't beat yourself up for it. You can't control how you feel, you can only control how you act. I know it must hurt, but smile and be happy for people. Just keep trying and I'm sure you'll be posting an announcement soon!
And I know this won't really make you feel better, but some of us, who were surprised by #2's impatience to get here, are a little envious of those of you who get to plan when your next one comes. I'm due at Christmas and my two will be 17 months apart, so I feel overwhelmed sometimes. I guess the grass is always greener on the other side. ;)
Good luck!
Jenn
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RE: Is it wrong to be jealous when you hear others are pregnant?
While I have not BTDT, I think feeling jealous is totally normal. Don't beat yourself up for it. You can't control how you feel, you can only control how you act. I know it must hurt, but smile and be happy for people. Just keep trying and I'm sure you'll be posting an announcement soon!
And I know this won't really make you feel better, but some of us, who were surprised by #2's impatience to get here, are a little envious of those of you who get to plan when your next one comes. I'm due at Christmas and my two will be 17 months apart, so I feel overwhelmed sometimes. I guess the grass is always greener on the other side. ;)
Good luck!
Jenn
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RE: Is it wrong to be jealous when you hear others are pregnant?
While I have not BTDT, I think feeling jealous is totally normal. Don't beat yourself up for it. You can't control how you feel, you can only control how you act. I know it must hurt, but smile and be happy for people. Just keep trying and I'm sure you'll be posting an announcement soon!
And I know this won't really make you feel better, but some of us, who were surprised by #2's impatience to get here, are a little envious of those of you who get to plan when your next one comes. I'm due at Christmas and my two will be 17 months apart, so I feel overwhelmed sometimes. I guess the grass is always greener on the other side. ;)
Good luck!
Jenn
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RE: Is it wrong to be jealous when you hear others are pregnant?
While I have not BTDT, I think feeling jealous is totally normal. Don't beat yourself up for it. You can't control how you feel, you can only control how you act. I know it must hurt, but smile and be happy for people. Just keep trying and I'm sure you'll be posting an announcement soon!
And I know this won't really make you feel better, but some of us, who were surprised by #2's impatience to get here, are a little envious of those of you who get to plan when your next one comes. I'm due at Christmas and my two will be 17 months apart, so I feel overwhelmed sometimes. I guess the grass is always greener on the other side. ;)
Good luck!
Jenn
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RE: Is it wrong to be jealous when you hear others are pregnant?
While I have not BTDT, I think feeling jealous is totally normal. Don't beat yourself up for it. You can't control how you feel, you can only control how you act. I know it must hurt, but smile and be happy for people. Just keep trying and I'm sure you'll be posting an announcement soon!
And I know this won't really make you feel better, but some of us, who were surprised by #2's impatience to get here, are a little envious of those of you who get to plan when your next one comes. I'm due at Christmas and my two will be 17 months apart, so I feel overwhelmed sometimes. I guess the grass is always greener on the other side. ;)
Good luck!
Jenn
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RE: Is it wrong to be jealous when you hear others are pregnant?
While I have not BTDT, I think feeling jealous is totally normal. Don't beat yourself up for it. You can't control how you feel, you can only control how you act. I know it must hurt, but smile and be happy for people. Just keep trying and I'm sure you'll be posting an announcement soon!
And I know this won't really make you feel better, but some of us, who were surprised by #2's impatience to get here, are a little envious of those of you who get to plan when your next one comes. I'm due at Christmas and my two will be 17 months apart, so I feel overwhelmed sometimes. I guess the grass is always greener on the other side. ;)
Good luck!
Jenn
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RE: Is it wrong to be jealous when you hear others are pregnant?
I totally hear you on this one. While I would love to start TTC for #2, the timing is just not right. :( And I just loved being pregnant and miss it (crazy huh?)!! My first pregnancy with DD was very easy and I just loved the feeling of having a little miracle inside, kwim?! Plus I just think that pregnancy is just soo beautiful too. So I have to admit that I get a little green eyed too. But I just have to remember that I am so blessed with DD and to cherish everyday with her.
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RE: Is it wrong to be jealous when you hear others are pregnant?
I totally hear you on this one. While I would love to start TTC for #2, the timing is just not right. :( And I just loved being pregnant and miss it (crazy huh?)!! My first pregnancy with DD was very easy and I just loved the feeling of having a little miracle inside, kwim?! Plus I just think that pregnancy is just soo beautiful too. So I have to admit that I get a little green eyed too. But I just have to remember that I am so blessed with DD and to cherish everyday with her.
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